"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is my girlfriend dropping a hint that she loves me?

bizzym

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So she posted some stupid zodiac thing about her sign being protective when they’re in love. Okay whatever, but then she added how if she cooks/wants to cook for you she’s in love bc she rarely cooks for herself.

She’s cooked for me once and was going to do it another time but she had to work at the last minute so couldn’t.

Is she dropping a hint that she loves me or am I looking too much into it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Julian

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Who cares she can say whatever she wants dont get fooled. These bishes can say they love u and then 5 minutes later be sukkin D thats not yours
 

Mbuckets82

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I’ve read the man is supposed to let the woman come out and say it because it’s feminine energy. You love how you’ve been living and she will come to you with it. I’m trying to follow this myself.
 

Mbuckets82

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Funny story, a female I know who is still with her man just called me saying she still loves me although things are going great with her man.
Im pretty sure she tells him she loves him. Today she was crying to me about her feelings.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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2Rocky

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We all have ways we show people we love them...
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Do you know the 5 Love Languages? Here they are:​
l. Words of affirmation – using words to build up the other person. “Thanks for
taking out the garbage.” Not – “It’s about time you took the garbage out. The
flies were going to carry it out for you.”​
2. Gifts – a gift says, “He was thinking about me. Look what he got for me.”​
3. Acts of Service – Doing something for your spouse that you know they would
like. Cooking a meal, washing dishes, vacuuming floors, are all acts of service.​
4. Quality time – by which I mean, giving your spouse your undivided attention.
Taking a walk together or sitting on the couch with the TV off – talking and
listening.​
5. Physical touch – holding hands, hugging, kissing, sexual intercourse, are all
expressions of love.​
Out of these five, each of you has a primary love language which speaks more
deeply to you than all the others. Discovering each other’s language and speaking
it regularly is the best way to keep love alive in a marriage. relationship​


If this is a woman you are serious about you should talk about your "Love Language" with her rather than asking out of context questions to strangers on the internet. Don't get too hung up on the L word either... I have a 50 year old female friend who has told me she LOVES me for years. She is like a sister to me...
 

Black Widow Void

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Mbuckets82, it could be worse. Instead of having a woman crying to you, it could be Glassguy. I'll explain.

Just curious but how does it feel to be a woman's emotional tampon?
Although response like the above contain no merit, it does reveal quite a bit about their posting behavior .

Say hello to "Glassguy": if you lack originality, and are desperate to 'fit in' (on the internet of all places) ... just pull out some over used sosuave cliche's ("princess in another castle"... "emotional tampon" etc..) and assume the position of an unoriginal conformist.
Sounds like quite a life.
If in real life, you are too afraid to confront your offender, you can reclaim your 'pride'.... by becoming a faceless computer jockey behind a locked door and .... lash out smarmy hostile (and unoriginal) responses toward newer members to this forum.

Mbuckets82, it looks like you are newer here. Welcome aboard. You'll discover members here from wall walks of life. Unfortunately, this also includes some members that lack self-worth and can only seem to feel good about themselves.... if they put down newer members. This behavior is an example of frailty; which is demonstrated by those that exhibit displaced aggression.
 

The Duke

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So she posted some stupid zodiac thing about her sign being protective when they’re in love. Okay whatever, but then she added how if she cooks/wants to cook for you she’s in love bc she rarely cooks for herself.

She’s cooked for me once and was going to do it another time but she had to work at the last minute so couldn’t.

Is she dropping a hint that she loves me or am I looking too much into it?
Stop over analyzing like a girl. Your job is to have a great time and ride that pu$$y like no other.
 

Epic Days

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Yes. She loves you. Start looking at diamond rings.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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