“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is my G/F cheating on me?

Bible_Belt

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LightsPlease said:
I've been involved in an off-and-on relationship with my g/f for the past seven years

What happened during the times the relationship went "off," and how does that compare to the current situation? If you have broken up several times already, then it would not be surprising to expect it again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Danger said:
Who cares whether she is cheating or not.....she is going to bars with a guy that you do not know, and she is not telling you about it.

is that behavior acceptable to any man here? If so, give me your girls phone number. I promise, we'll just be friends.
Hahahaha, promise? To everyone else that replied I appreciate the time you took to help me out, thanks.

Anyways I sat down with her, and just called it off, to many red flags and I was acting out of character. To be honest, she took it a lot worse then I did. When I started to suspect something was going on, I took it about upon myself to test the waters just in case. Luckily, I met some decent girls I can fall back on while I get over this.

Thanks again to everyone who took the time to reply.
 

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There is definitely something happening between them. She may not be cheating on you yet, but it seems like she will be soon...
 

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Sigh. This kind of sh*t is demeaning and emasculating, and why I don't trust broads much anymore.

If it ain't happening yet, they'll get a few drinks in them at some point, he'll make a pass, and she'll either deny or accept his come-on.

I would start running game on her immediately, going out and meeting chicks. If she questions you about just do exactly what she did.

Don't be as available to her. But start meeting other women now. I'm not saying throw the relationship away.....just be wary.

IMO, this is open season on you starting to at least talk to other women again. Escalate it exactly the same amount as she does.

Seeing as she is hanging with other dudes, you have full permission to start hanging with other women, and contacting them, and going out for drinks.
 
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