"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is monogamy like religion?

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In lieu of the previous post about cheating and infidelity, I got into a conversation that entailed how some compared monogamy to religion. That there is no such thing and that EVERYBODY cheats at least once in their life. That monogamy is only something people pretend to do. And those that continued with the married life WILL inevitably stray.

That, like religion, that it's something we pretend is real and cling to out of fear, but the reality is that it is fantasy.

Now, I wouldn't go as far as to say it's fantasy, but its viewpoints like this is really spoken out of bitterness and had joined the "If ya can't beat 'em, join 'em"

Thoughts on this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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