"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is masturbating bad?

SeymourCake

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Is it bad to waste testosterone just because you feel horny? Studies shows that it helps with depression in the short run, but I have a feeling it wears you out much more in the long run making you go back to the state you were once in.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Masturbating doesn't waste testosterone. In fact sexual arousal will spike your testosterone levels.

However, don't excessively masturbate, i say stick to the 1 every 4 days guideline unless you feel really horny. Oh and DON'T JACK OFF TO PORN. It's Porn that fvcks you up.
 

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When I didn't masturbate for like two weeks (and no sex during this period either), I was very depressed and LESS horny.

When I jack off every couple days, I feel MORE hornier.
 

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CaptainJ said:
Masturbating doesn't waste testosterone. In fact sexual arousal will spike your testosterone levels.

However, don't excessively masturbate, i say stick to the 1 every 4 days guideline unless you feel really horny. Oh and DON'T JACK OFF TO PORN. It's Porn that fvcks you up.
Exactly. Not sure about the 1 in 4 days rule, but definitely avoid porn.
 

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You do realize theres a 135 page thread dealing with this subject elsewhere on this forum lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I know sexual arousal does that, but what happens after you bust a nut?
 

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Fapping isn't bad, when:
- Done in moderation. Don't fap 3 times a day.
- When done with fantasy, and not copious amount of porn.
- When you don't go for the very quick get off. Try to extend it a bit by going until you're about to burst and stop. This will make you last longer during sex.
- You don't do it the day before you potentially gonna get laid. It'll make you a bit more aggressive and more sexual.
 

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I thought you'll get blue balls if you fap and stop when you're about to bust a nut?
 

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SeymourCake said:
I thought you'll get blue balls if you fap and stop when you're about to bust a nut?
Do you even know what blue balls are? Because it's not some crappy medical condition or something bad, it's just that your prostate fluids get so pressurized that it hurts. It'll take a while to get blue balls, and when you get it, just blow your load and it's gone.

But, don't let it get that far. It means you would have to fap for like an hour, which is kinda overkill. Just go for the 3 or 4 times near-orgasm moment, postpone and then finish yourself off.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Guys come on, don't feed the troll.
 

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SandHawk said:
Do you even know what blue balls are? Because it's not some crappy medical condition or something bad, it's just that your prostate fluids get so pressurized that it hurts. It'll take a while to get blue balls, and when you get it, just blow your load and it's gone.

But, don't let it get that far. It means you would have to fap for like an hour, which is kinda overkill. Just go for the 3 or 4 times near-orgasm moment, postpone and then finish yourself off.

Wait, so basically people get blue balls from NOT fapping?

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I dont think it's bad. it just means you don't have a quality hole to put your thing.

Lol...Pretty much. My left hand never denies me though.
 
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