"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is Los Angeles Safe?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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Bible_Belt said:
I read that in Orange County, the tap water is sewage water that has been treated and pumped back to you. Yum.
Reclaimed water is only used for irrigation and other things as far as I know, not for drinking or showering or things like that.
 

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After living in Los Angeles, and now living in NYC, there really is no difference. It's just a big mixture of poor people, middle-class folk, and upper class folk. I've never felt unsafe in Los Angeles. Certain parts, yes, but you have to understand people won't get shot at for driving through a particular neighborhood. Walking around you might get hassled, but like the song says, nobody walks in LA.

No one really lives in downtown LA. It's not like midtown manhattan. Downtown LA has mainly business and only a few residential high rises. Every part of LA is being gentrified just like NY has been. This fact alone makes both of these cities increasing expensive to live in, yet much safer than their previous times.

But to answer your question, you'll be pretty safe wherever you go. Just use common sense when dealing with certain people. Now if you were going to Oakland, Cleveland, or St. Louis, I'd say be more careful.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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