"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is it wrong to steal the girl?

VAboi

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This girl i like was asked out by another guy. He gave her roses and somethign else.... not my style but anyway I dont know if she said yes to the guy. Would it be wrong for me to ask her out anyway? And how should I try it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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It's only stealing if they're boyfriend and girlfriend. Expect that she will date other guys, and be dating other girls too.
 

WalkingStick

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In my opinion, it isnt morally wrong to "steal" a girl unless she's engaged or married. If she likes you better, I don't see anything wrong. Competition is competition.

I wouldn't suggest asking her out unless you know she's single. If she DOES end up saying yes to this guy, SHOW HER you like her instead. If she likes you back, you'll get signals.

Alternatively, you could wait for her to be single. But that's not very manly now, is it?
 
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