Is it wrong to just say it?

[matius]

I thought it might have been difficult to read this the first time around, so I'll try once more.

I've noticed that some women I become interested in won't inquire into who I am at all. They'll just kind of fade out. I feel that maybe they get this false perception of what I'm after- without my input obviously.

Right now I simply want to hang out with the women I meet. Do fun things without any strings attached. Both of us would be free to do whatever we wanted when not in each others presence.

Would it be wrong to just let them know that's what you're after from the beginning? Just say it as I do above...would this help or hurt things?

 

[matius]

Bump, trying it one more time...

 

[NMMWCR]

Doesn't matter if you tell her or not. She is going to know either way. Do your thing, be your own man, and have no shame for it.

 

[matius]

I just want to tell her exactly what I want and let her say ok, or nah. That's it.

How is she going to know that if I don't say anything. I hear that be your own man...

 

[Krassus]

Alright, now that's something i didn't expect to see here: a guy asking how to become FRIENDS with a woman! I got a few tips for you: start off by buying her flowers. Then call her every day and ask when you'll see her again. And so forth, you know the drill

 

[matius]

No man, not friends. F()ck buddies with no strings attached.

 

[Krassus]

Ahh alright, i gotta start reading between the lines Well, if you find a way to just tell a girl you just met that you wanna be fvck buddies, and have her agree to it, be sure to teach us how

 

[matius]

I know, I feel like I'm speaking in tongues. I'm just a bit confused at the moment on how to handle these chicks that just won't reciprocate interest.

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by matius
I know, I feel like I'm speaking in tongues. I'm just a bit confused at the moment on how to handle these chicks that just won't reciprocate interest.

Yeah, but if they don't seem interested, what makes you think telling them that you only wanna fvck em is gonna help?

 

[matius]

Nuthin I guess

 

[syncronic]

Have you ever tried just asking? Its worked for me. If she likes you then you should know this by now. If she doesnt like you that way then there would be no point in even wondering. once you've had sex and you're both mature about it then just COMMUNICATE to her that this is all you want right now but be sure to do this. That way she knows not to expect anything more from you and you can see other girls.