Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is it wrong to desire a MILF?

ilikecharlene

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I am 32 (33 in a couple of months or so), so I'm (by my own reckoning) not very young, but certainly not very old. I don't get on well with younger women, I find they're very self-absorbed. most women I am friendly with, for some reason, tend to be older.

Maybe this is one reason I want to date an older woman. what is it like to date an older woman? most dating sources on the Web say "be mature" and "take the lead" and such, but IMO maturity is a function of personality not age.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I was still a cherry boy at age 26, the 34 year old wife of a shooting buddy seduced me. We were lovers for 30+ years.
 

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what is it like to date an older woman?

She will throw easy sex at you to compensate for the realization that her body is falling apart and does not compare to younger women. But it is usually very good sex.
 

MatureDJ

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Bible_Belt said:
what is it like to date an older woman?

She will throw easy sex at you to compensate for the realization that her body is falling apart and does not compare to younger women. But it is usually very good sex.
I agree. I had such a MILF a little while back. The figure was a bit off (but not roly poly), but the total sex session was quite interesting. With that said, when I would look at her body, I had to imagine men's magazine centerfolds. :woo:
 

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Is it wrong to desire a MILF? F**k no!

Judge nismo has taken women in their 40's to chambers. A while back, I had a woman over 60 in chambers! The sex was awesome! So much so, she got up 4 hours later, blew me, and did me again! :cheer:

I also had a neighbor who was married and she sort of watched me grow up over the years. Around the time I finished high school, said married milf neighbor (23 years my senior, yet looks 23) took my mind off another older woman i dated a week prior. Very quickly. And I knew she liked me because she never told me she was married and she had no problems being affectionate with me in front of her family. And she had no problems taking me to chambers either! :D

With older women, AFAIC, don't get attached. Let her do that. She still has the sex card and other options. There are lots of older women out there who still feel entitled to a multi millionaire. :cuss:

I really don't like younger women. particularly in Atlanta.

Above all, a milf is a woman, right? If you want her, make a move. And don't put her on a pedestal. So ordered.

Case closed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Uberguy

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nismo-4 said:
With older women, AFAIC, don't get attached. Let her do that. She still has the sex card and other options. There are lots of older women out there who still feel entitled to a multi millionaire. :cuss:
I know a divorced MILF who once said that she'd only marry a millionaire.

The fact that most millionaires would only marry a 20-something model with no kids hasn't crossed her mind.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
what is it like to date an older woman?

She will throw easy sex at you to compensate for the realization that her body is falling apart and does not compare to younger women. But it is usually very good sex.
so it's mostly about sex?
 

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You do know there are women in their 30's still without kids, right? Just saying...a good majority are probably batsh!t crazy because their bio clocks are ticking time bombs in their head as well as the fact that they're still single for a reason, but I'm just saying...

Agree with the milt's being sexual freaks, even without the greatest bodies. My fav was this chick who approached me with (and I sh!t you not, this was her pickup line TO ME!) "what would you say if I told you I wanted to suck your d!ck?" really? Is that even a fvcking question?

She did EVERYTHING! The only things I didn't do with her were things I simply didn't have the utilities/resources/other chicks handy to do.
 
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