"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is it wrong to be blunt?

itishe

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I've been seeing this girl for about 2 months. Not going out but dating. She wasn't putting out so I banged my ex and she happened to find out. She cried and got emotional blah blah.

Is it wrong to tell her, "I wanna **** the **** out of you"? I think that'd be kind of sexy to get that randomly in a text or to hear it one night. Like I said she hasn't given it up and she's a virgin so this might open her up?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Itishe, you are still trying to corrupt the innocent? Just get another hor already!
 

Kevin Cass

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i dont think that would work (text her i wanna **** you), tell her were not exclusive why are you acting this way. i've had sex with a virgin before and what you do is that each time ur with her take it 1 step further, you know baby steps, dont go all out or she might freak out cuz remember she's a virgin..but you never know maybe she might like that..every female is different
 

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First and foremost, you have to earn back her trust. Theres no way shes going to f'uck you if it is going to make her seem like a slut. First, you have to justify it in her mind (ending ties with you ex, etc). I don't think your approach is all that bad (being blunt) because girls like when you come on strong and passonitely. Just make sure that the context is right and that she feels the same way before you take action.
 
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