Is it wrong that I sometimes feel like instigating violence, beating up a girl's bf

[8inches]

You got some issues, stan. I think you need some counseling.

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

sites, forums, and the whole PUA industry, Seduction Community, are reasons why men are held to higher standards than women are, the way i see it, is that if a man is struggling with women, getting rejected left and right, getting friend-zoned frequently, he has to fix, change, improve many many many things about himself, but if a woman is struggling with men, it's more so because she is only attracting the wrong type of men, since women are allowed to take on a passive role in the dating, relationship and sex scene

 

[Fly By Night]

Well, I am TECHNICALLY a virgin and I also hate the super high expectations of women... but you have to realize, women are fickle. Do I feel bitter about women's expectations? Of course. Do I feel the need to act in violence? No. You can't start having emotional breakdowns just because you can't get some or women don't have their expectations in-line with reality.

Now I don't have any scientific proof for this nor has this happened to me often enough to be considered consistent, but the times that I attracted women the most are when women were the furthest thing from my mind.

They want a Man that has embraces life. An exciting Man. I saw that video of that guy who shot up an LA fitness on the first page of this thread. If you listened to him talk, he had NO EMOTION. Even his humor was bad. He kept going on and on about the stupid **** he bought, as if the things he buys defines him as a person or a woman is going to just throw herself on top of him because he has "electronic gadgets" in his house. He had no grip on actual life, buying items in a feeble attempt to replace actual life. It is really not that shocking that he would end up self-destructing.

Please don't let women be the focus of your life. Define yourself without women. So many guys want to categorize themselves as a husband, father, boyfriend, virgin, playa, or etc. but if they lacked a woman, then they feel like they're nothing, and then proceed onto the self-destruct phase.

TL;DR?
You keep saying how stupid society is and how much you are against it, but it was society that made you hype up vagina more than it's actually worth in the first place, hence why you are borderline violent over it.

P.S. Be very happy you are a Man. One of my female friends was crying because she had to wait and wait for someone to approach her (hasn't been approached in 2 years). She told me right to my face "You're lucky you're a guy. You have no idea how lucky you are."

I am so ****ing proud to be a Man. You should be too. :yes:

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

Well, I am TECHNICALLY a virgin and I also hate the super high expectations of women... but you have to realize, women are fickle. Do I feel bitter about women's expectations? Of course. Do I feel the need to act in violence? No. You can't start having emotional breakdowns just because you can't get some or women don't have their expectations in-line with reality.

Now I don't have any scientific proof for this nor has this happened to me often enough to be considered consistent, but the times that I attracted women the most are when women were the furthest thing from my mind.

They want a Man that has embraces life. An exciting Man. I saw that video of that guy who shot up an LA fitness on the first page of this thread. If you listened to him talk, he had NO EMOTION. Even his humor was bad. He kept going on and on about the stupid **** he bought, as if the things he buys defines him as a person or a woman is going to just throw herself on top of him because he has "electronic gadgets" in his house. He had no grip on actual life, buying items in a feeble attempt to replace actual life. It is really not that shocking that he would end up self-destructing.

Please don't let women be the focus of your life. Define yourself without women. So many guys want to categorize themselves as a husband, father, boyfriend, virgin, playa, or etc. but if they lacked a woman, then they feel like they're nothing, and then proceed onto the self-destruct phase.

TL;DR?
You keep saying how stupid society is and how much you are against it, but it was society that made you hype up vagina more than it's actually worth in the first place, hence why you are borderline violent over it.

P.S. Be very happy you are a Man. One of my female friends was crying because she had to wait and wait for someone to approach her (hasn't been approached in 2 years). She told me right to my face "You're lucky you're a guy. You have no idea how lucky you are."

I am so ****ing proud to be a Man. You should be too. :yes:

women have the final god damn say!!!, they just have to welcome or deny advances!!!!, how is that not power? a guy can keep approaching, making moves, but still keep getting rejected left and right, and it will always be his fault unfortuneately, women don't have to take responsibility for anything in their lives, but men do

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

would love to kill a girl's boyfriend like this without getting into legal trouble:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NXKA0y4WegA

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

women can be a loser, but men can't, it pisses me off, angers me to a high boiling point!

 

[Plutoman]

women can be a loser, but men can't, it pisses me off, angers me to a high boiling point!

I've only semi-browsed through this thread.. but really, do you want to be a loser? I can safely say that I sure as hell don't.

 

[perseverance]

I've only semi-browsed through this thread.. but really, do you want to be a loser? I can safely say that I sure as hell don't.

I think he's a bit of a deranged lunatic.

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

yeah well i just want to release my anger, sexual frustration, against the social-norm, status-quo that us guys, men have to be the initiators in the dating and relationship, hook-up world, etc., i'd rather use my balls, testosterone for instigating a fight, violence, after all, they always argue balls and testosterone as being the reason, excuse as to why us guys have to do the approaching and asking out, taking charge, taking control all the damn time, and i feel have a good logical excuse as to why fighting, instigating violence should prove enough that I am a Man and have Balls, because testosterone is the hormone which is associated with aggression, and fighting is an act of aggressiveness, so i would be using my balls for a logical reason

 

[Crazystarf]

One thing that I have noticed: When a person masturbates, he loses testosterone, and it will make him insecure and feel tired all the time. With regards to the amount of porn available on the internet, more and more men are losing their drives to go out and improve themselves as they can always find gorgeous women in their "own little world" (internet).

What I'm trying to get across is: Don't masturbate and don't think about women for a while (3 weeks to a month). If you have trouble abstaining, find a program that blocks porn sites. Learn everything that you wanted to do in that meantime; this allows you to stop thinking about women and focus on improving yourself. You will find it sooner or later that you will build up a whole lot of swagger when you abstain for a week or two.

Just my two cents. Oh, and also take Vitamin D

 

[Trailboss]

Methinks this OP is a troll, a knucklehead, a moron. He is playing with, fu**ing with, screwing with everyone. He/she sounds about 13 or 12 or 12.5. He/she is mad, angry, whatever and is completely wasting oxygen.....lol

 

[Ihateinitiatingalot7]

One thing that I have noticed: When a person masturbates, he loses testosterone, and it will make him insecure and feel tired all the time. With regards to the amount of porn available on the internet, more and more men are losing their drives to go out and improve themselves as they can always find gorgeous women in their "own little world" (internet).

What I'm trying to get across is: Don't masturbate and don't think about women for a while (3 weeks to a month). If you have trouble abstaining, find a program that blocks porn sites. Learn everything that you wanted to do in that meantime; this allows you to stop thinking about women and focus on improving yourself. You will find it sooner or later that you will build up a whole lot of swagger when you abstain for a week or two.

Just my two cents. Oh, and also take Vitamin D

hate the cards i was dealt with for being male, it's like women just have to exist in order to get a boyfriend, to attract men, but us guys have to be way more than that if we want to get a girlfriend, attract women