"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it wrong for me to love this man?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There have been women I wanted to hit but it's not practical.

The law can crack down on you, her brothers may fvck you up, hell she may even kick your ass.

Which brings me to the "goon hand." Clamp your hand down on the "crelbow" area on the opposite side of the elbow and escort her silently and quickly out of public eye. Don't forget to grit your teeth and speak through them for emphasis. Nobody can say you beat her and she is usually thrown off by your relative calmness and non-reaction. But the threat of your own overreaction is always there without the actual overreaction.

It's beautiful, a gift given us by goons everywhere.
 

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Agree 100%

One thing todays emasculated, tight jeaned, faggotted men DON'T HAVE THE SLIGHTEST CLUE is that hitting a woman to put her in her place was STANDARD for 2 million fvcking years!

As sean said, sometimes women NEED TO GO BEYOND HAVING THE LAST WORD. That's when you as a man have to stop that noise.

You think men in 18th century England, India, or frontier Australia had to run GAME?

Women got out of line...two slaps across the face she calmed down, KNOWS HER MAN LOVES HER...and she goes back to baking bread, frying steak, or spreading her legs.

See how easy this could be.
 

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Yes, and that's because they are children, plain and simple.
 

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Listen to that b!tch!

The video starts with "I know Sean Connery regrets this conversation". No he doesn't, *****! Not at all! LOL!

And during the interview she was acting like a psychologist-mother-fake-highclass *****, expecting for Sean to get embarrassed and take his words back. What an idiot!
Sean, as always, was a hero!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Atom Smasher said:
Yes, and that's because they are children, plain and simple.
I disagree. They are simply emotional and emotions don't make sense. Ever see a guy on [too much] roids? That's just a different and more aggressive kind of emotion.
 
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Sure I respect Sean Connery but I prefer to discipline women in a psychological way without having to lay a hand on one.

You just have to look at video of pimps on youtube and how they have mastered the art of communicating and dominating women on a psychological level.

If you have to discipline a woman with your hands is because you couldn't do it with your words.
 

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I have got only one thing to say about it.
" Respect women and they will love you for that. "
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Gutti said:
I have got only one thing to say about it.
" Respect women and they will love you for that. "
LOL, stick around, son. You have a lot to learn. As men we understand that this is how it should be, but in 2012 that is fantasy-land.

Respect women and they will trample you underfoot.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
I disagree. They are simply emotional and emotions don't make sense. Ever see a guy on [too much] roids? That's just a different and more aggressive kind of emotion.
You don't agree that children have difficulty controlling their emotions, throw tantrums, often act like brats, look at the world simplistically, whine and complain when they don't get their way, react to what is immediately apparent to them rather than see the deeper meaning, continually pine for and require attention, flake on appointments according to mood, don't like rules, are selfish, don't have the slightest concept of living by principle, pout and sulk when they don't get their way, are extraordiarily self-centered, and are driven to test and challenge authority?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Atom Smasher said:
You don't agree that children have difficulty controlling their emotions, throw tantrums, often act like brats, look at the world simplistically, whine and complain when they don't get their way, react to what is immediately apparent to them rather than see the deeper meaning, continually pine for and require attention, flake on appointments according to mood, don't like rules, are selfish, don't have the slightest concept of living by principle, pout and sulk when they don't get their way, are extraordiarily self-centered, and are driven to test and challenge authority?
You're simply describing symptoms of being overly emotional. I've found that women are smart and logical when they are forced to be by the situation at hand. The problem is we don't encourage enough thinking and reason and as a society we make all sorts of excuses for emotional outburts and behaving badly. "Oh she's just a girl" and "it's that time of the month" and other stupid excuses.

Even chidren are treated the same way. Ever see a kid screaming it's head off and nobody says anything? Want to punt the little fvcker across the room but the blame lies with the parents and us for not shaming the parents publicly for their lack of parenting.
 

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I do think that you're actually supporting my own points.

Children are characterized as being overly emotional. That's one of the identifying characteristics of a child.

Children are also are able to be "smart and logical" when they are forced to be. Just look at school. That authority is specifically designed to (among other things) squelch emotional desires and outbursts in children, give them a sense of structure, and cause them to answer to an authority higher than themselves. This is similar to the authority that we men bring to a relationship with a woman. We are the ones who force them to be "smart and logical", because without our moderating power they cannot control themselves. I would submit that the very foundation of SS and the entire community is changing the power dynamic and restoring proper, natural balance.

You're exactly right that we as a society don't encourage thinking and reasoning with women. In fact, they are not held accountable and they have privileged "brat" rights. The media tells them how "special" they are, how men are "slow and stupid" predators, and they eat this up like candy because they don't have the brains to think rationally about it. Again, rationality is what we men bring to the table. Just like children, they need an outside, guiding force to stabilize them.

You just said "even children are treated this way", and that's precisely my point. They are treated as children because they are in fact children. I believe that this is natural and is what cause us men to respond with an instinctive protective mechanism. Even women's voices remain childlike (Lucille Ball and other heavy smokers excluded), which again causes us to regard them as vulnerable children who need protection.

If it sounds like a child and acts like a child, it is a child. Thank God they don't smell like children! ;)
 

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Atom Smasher said:
they need an outside, guiding force to stabilize them.
Which can't happen because that guiding force (men) has been slowly stripped away. The men were seen as the tough ones in society, the working man with a stable job. And people love the underdogs, the small special interests groups. Good when it comes to business and corporations, not so good when it comes to societal issues.

Men have had their rights stripped away, whereas women got more and more special treatment. It's understandable, they fought for equal rights and won them but once they won their rights they simply continued and went overboard to the point of oppression and now we have serious social problems. The pendulum swung too far past the middle ground. They deserve equal rights and equal opportunity to live life on their own terms, good and especially the bad that comes in the real world. You wanted that arts degree sweetie? Well can't complain about money, you wanted it for the art. This is your choice, live with it.


I believe that this is natural and is what cause us men to respond with an instinctive protective mechanism. Even women's voices remain childlike (Lucille Ball and other heavy smokers excluded), which again causes us to regard them as vulnerable children who need protection.
That's a good point.

If it sounds like a child and acts like a child, it is a child. Thank God they don't smell like children! ;)
Oh they do sometimes. Awww sweety, you threw up all over yourself because you were hanging out with the girls and you don't know how to drink? Almost shut down your last that night spent near the toilet?

:rolleyes:
 

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I love that interview and I'm glad he had the cajones to say what he believed.

As much as talk of hitting a woman gets people up in arms, Sean Connery made a very wise and true observation: Sometimes, even when you give them the last word, they just cant fvcking let it go. I go through this with my gf at least once a month. We have a disagreement or issue, and if I was clearly in the wrong, I will acknowledge it and apologize. BUT-----even AFTER I have done that, she still cant just fvcking drop it. She has to keep going on and on about why I was wrong and hurt her feelings, etc, etc.

Of course I don't slap her, I usually just tell her I am done talking and hang up the phone. I agree with FairShake that in this day and age it is just not a smart idea on any level.

Now if it were socially and legally acceptable would I? I dont know. I know there have been times when I really wanted to.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yup, for Connery it's an old-school, cultural thing. Nothing's gonna change that old war horse.

Of course, the point of posting the video was to highlight not the hitting, but rather Connery's unflappable demeanor when challenged by a blatant shaming tactic.

That, in my opinion, is what every man should strive for. We must stop this shaming at every turn, one interaction at a time. Notice he didn't even show a shred of discomfort.

That, my friends, is ownership of frame.
 

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Connery is just an old Anglo fool who plays to boys such as yourselves.

http://www.queerty.com/move-over-ja...vs-first-incestuous-gay-lip-smacker-20110607/
Your hero. As gay as AIDS. Nice.

The Anglo world has always been a bastion for gays. This only goes to prove that point even more. Older divas and gay boys. If you are not into either I suggest you learn a language like Russian.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JunTs0-w10w&feature=results_main&playnext=1&list=PL924228B6342990C0
"I Run Away"...Stupid old b---- almost killed her daughter because she was too controlling!
 

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Interesting. He probably justified it in his early days, as many do when they are young, with "It's acceptable... I'm doing it for my art".

Disgusting to say the least, but that doesn't change one iota his handling of Barbara Walters.
 
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