"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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is it worth,,,

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i know a girl
she moved to Dubai
I like her a lot
im almost positive say.....95% that when she comes back we will have something ,but nothing is a possibility, with each other
she really is amazing...and ****ng hot :D
 
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its already occurred to me and i think im on the verge....still in my safe zone i think.
I just know that if I get with another girl this one isn't going to wanna know when i make a move. Is it worth it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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shes not going to be be faithful when shes gone, why should she be?
I wouldn't sit around. go about life and tell ehr you cant wait for her to come back n see where things go from there.
 

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my friend was telling me this story today, he liked this girl at school 1 year older than him so 1 time hes at the beach and that girl hes never talked but liked his whole high school life is there and his sister happens to know a friend of this girl, so they get to hangout and on like the 3rd day theyre hanging out the girl that my friend likes (shes extremely hot btw) tells my friends sister "you guys should kiss (refering to my friends sister and another guy that was there)" and my friends sister is like "why dont you kiss nick?" (nick is my friend) so she goes and kisses him, then later that night my friend and the girl are alone and she asks him "did you want to hookup the whole time?" and hes liek "well, yeah" and she says "you shoulda told me before! my boyfriend gets here tomorrow" they madeout hardcore that whole night.

Moral: GIRLS ARE SLUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUTS.
 
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aha yeah to be honest ive already hooked up with one girl at my dads.
But im working unsciable hours so it aint great when im working in the morning though im giving eye contact smiling all that stuff but its not good when uve been up 10 hours drinking nothing but coffee jumping in and out of a van sweating like a peado in a playground
 
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