"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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is it worth,,,

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i know a girl
she moved to Dubai
I like her a lot
im almost positive say.....95% that when she comes back we will have something ,but nothing is a possibility, with each other
she really is amazing...and ****ng hot :D
 
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its already occurred to me and i think im on the verge....still in my safe zone i think.
I just know that if I get with another girl this one isn't going to wanna know when i make a move. Is it worth it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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shes not going to be be faithful when shes gone, why should she be?
I wouldn't sit around. go about life and tell ehr you cant wait for her to come back n see where things go from there.
 

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my friend was telling me this story today, he liked this girl at school 1 year older than him so 1 time hes at the beach and that girl hes never talked but liked his whole high school life is there and his sister happens to know a friend of this girl, so they get to hangout and on like the 3rd day theyre hanging out the girl that my friend likes (shes extremely hot btw) tells my friends sister "you guys should kiss (refering to my friends sister and another guy that was there)" and my friends sister is like "why dont you kiss nick?" (nick is my friend) so she goes and kisses him, then later that night my friend and the girl are alone and she asks him "did you want to hookup the whole time?" and hes liek "well, yeah" and she says "you shoulda told me before! my boyfriend gets here tomorrow" they madeout hardcore that whole night.

Moral: GIRLS ARE SLUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUTS.
 
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aha yeah to be honest ive already hooked up with one girl at my dads.
But im working unsciable hours so it aint great when im working in the morning though im giving eye contact smiling all that stuff but its not good when uve been up 10 hours drinking nothing but coffee jumping in and out of a van sweating like a peado in a playground
 
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