"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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is it worth trying again?

drift king

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i met this gorgeous HB from facebook in the summer, we had a good 1st date but no kiss close. but for the 2nd i had plans to go to a bar, she didn't want to.. and i made the mistake of succumbing to her demands and took her for food cos she hadn't eaten dinner yet.

i know stupid move, anyway after food i wanted to go to a quiet bar but she still didn't want, but we went in anyway.. but it was closing, so that was over. she was pleased. but during dinner our convo was bad and i was getting LJBF'd.

in the car i tried to make out with her but she wouldn't let me.. then she kept going on and on about how she needs to 'feel' she wants to kiss someone etc etc.. by then i was fed up with her. and she kept going on about being friends.

i texted her a few days later but she never contacted me again thereafter. i suddenly got the bright idea to call her after so long.. like 5 months.

there's a few things to consider tho, she's russian (therefore very traditional i.e. expect the man to always pay make the first move etc etc) so a lot of sosuave rules dont apply unfortunately and would backfire, and she's quite poor (she shares a room with 2 other girls and a bed with 1 of them) in some crappy part of town.

now me, i just want to bang her cos she's so unbelievably gorgeous is it a waste of my time?

the reason i never called her back was it would be too difficult to get any from her, i dont have my own place so that's out of the question.. and she's 1 of these super innocent types who may still even be a virgin at like 23 years old. it's hard to say. i just dont see her giving me a bl0wjob in my car so is it probably a waste of my money and time?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Daddy The Pimp

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Giving it another try wouldnt kill you. It will only improve your game. You can learn from that.

And the fact that she's Russian doesn't mean shit. Sorry if any Russian who might get offended , but i find Russian girls very sluttish. I had many bl0wjobs , fvck closes and three way make outs with Russian girls. Im not judging anything , but all the Russian , Ukrainian , Kazakh girls that i've been dealing or i've been knowing , are very horny and very easy to get. Just play your cards right and you get them in the box.
 

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drift king said:
i met this gorgeous HB from facebook in the summer, we had a good 1st date but no kiss close. but for the 2nd i had plans to go to a bar, she didn't want to.. and i made the mistake of succumbing to her demands and took her for food cos she hadn't eaten dinner yet.

i know stupid move, anyway after food i wanted to go to a quiet bar but she still didn't want, but we went in anyway.. but it was closing, so that was over. she was pleased. but during dinner our convo was bad and i was getting LJBF'd.

in the car i tried to make out with her but she wouldn't let me.. then she kept going on and on about how she needs to 'feel' she wants to kiss someone etc etc.. by then i was fed up with her. and she kept going on about being friends.

i texted her a few days later but she never contacted me again thereafter. i suddenly got the bright idea to call her after so long.. like 5 months.

there's a few things to consider tho, she's russian (therefore very traditional i.e. expect the man to always pay make the first move etc etc) so a lot of sosuave rules dont apply unfortunately and would backfire, and she's quite poor (she shares a room with 2 other girls and a bed with 1 of them) in some crappy part of town.

now me, i just want to bang her cos she's so unbelievably gorgeous is it a waste of my time?

the reason i never called her back was it would be too difficult to get any from her, i dont have my own place so that's out of the question.. and she's 1 of these super innocent types who may still even be a virgin at like 23 years old. it's hard to say. i just dont see her giving me a bl0wjob in my car so is it probably a waste of my money and time?
I just don't think you generating any attraction during the actual date. You said she was pleased that the bar was closed and that she said she needs to FEEL like she wants to kiss someone. That is basically her nice way of putting you down easy.

Combined with the fact that you have no real place to actual go if she is game to have sex you are basically SOL.

Move on my friend.
 

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More trouble than it's worth bro.

You weren't attractive.

Better luck next time.
 
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