"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it worth the risk?

Oddman

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Met a girl at a bar where I work 3 weeks ago. Went on a date and didn't feel much connection and she told me she had kids and stuff and continued to call me but still wasn't that keen on things then she seemed a bit more cool and told me about beings friends. I was like "what?" and she said friends with benefits. I said "well thats sounds like a good deal"

She turned up at the bar with her friends and sister. She was acting a bit of a ****(telling me to warn a guy not to start on her male friend,overly ****y) and seemed delusional about me and her and speaking as if we were going on but then quickly walking away from me. She invited me to her house and said we can chill, but I'm not sure?

She knows my management and seems to know themmore thanme but didn't tell me.She spoke to one for like 20 minutes. Her personality doesn't fit me and her looks don't make up for it either. She was left the place and kissedme ont he cheek saying not to let them see her kiss me on the lips but she did at the begining anyway. Then later on I saw her after I had finished and she kissed me in front of all her mates
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Gro0ver

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The sex will come at a price. Personally I'd walk away, too many warning signs and it seem like your instincts are happy.

Do you need to bang a chick you don't like? Realise that you're quality and can do much better.
 
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