"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is it worth the risk?

Oddman

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Met a girl at a bar where I work 3 weeks ago. Went on a date and didn't feel much connection and she told me she had kids and stuff and continued to call me but still wasn't that keen on things then she seemed a bit more cool and told me about beings friends. I was like "what?" and she said friends with benefits. I said "well thats sounds like a good deal"

She turned up at the bar with her friends and sister. She was acting a bit of a ****(telling me to warn a guy not to start on her male friend,overly ****y) and seemed delusional about me and her and speaking as if we were going on but then quickly walking away from me. She invited me to her house and said we can chill, but I'm not sure?

She knows my management and seems to know themmore thanme but didn't tell me.She spoke to one for like 20 minutes. Her personality doesn't fit me and her looks don't make up for it either. She was left the place and kissedme ont he cheek saying not to let them see her kiss me on the lips but she did at the begining anyway. Then later on I saw her after I had finished and she kissed me in front of all her mates
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Gro0ver

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The sex will come at a price. Personally I'd walk away, too many warning signs and it seem like your instincts are happy.

Do you need to bang a chick you don't like? Realise that you're quality and can do much better.
 
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