"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is it worth it?

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FranklinsTower

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ok, so i liked this one girl since like the day I met her, then my best friend at the time went out with her, and really screwed her over, I was like the one who helped her through it, its been like a year and we hang out like all the time, and i like her, but this girl is like really hard to read (her body language) , if i was to go for it, what would be a good way to let her know?, like shes a great friend and i dont want to stop being friends with her or it to be wierd, what would be a good way, without jeprodizing a friendship?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You my friend...are going to have a hell of a time. I bet you any money, if you pulled the 'I like you' Line, she would say that she likes you as 'just friends'

Basically...It's not worth it
 
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It is possible, but very difficult. I'm doing it right now.

I am aware that it would just be better to next her and move on, but I'm waiting for a LJBF or a LFRN. There are only two possible outcomes.

Just game her as best you can, and if it doesn't work out, then just pick a new girl.
 
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i wouldnt say its worth it.


the average HS "relationship" doesnot last that long, the troubles required to get her is not worth it. stay friends and next her ass
 
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Your best bet to date someone is to just go straight for the dating, and not to become friends first. If you wait too long, she'll just consider you a friend, and if you like her and tell her that, she'll probably just say that she doesn't want to screw up your friendship, and you will be fvcked.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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