"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is it worth it?

FranklinsTower

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ok, so i liked this one girl since like the day I met her, then my best friend at the time went out with her, and really screwed her over, I was like the one who helped her through it, its been like a year and we hang out like all the time, and i like her, but this girl is like really hard to read (her body language) , if i was to go for it, what would be a good way to let her know?, like shes a great friend and i dont want to stop being friends with her or it to be wierd, what would be a good way, without jeprodizing a friendship?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Docs

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You my friend...are going to have a hell of a time. I bet you any money, if you pulled the 'I like you' Line, she would say that she likes you as 'just friends'

Basically...It's not worth it
 

tyguy

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It is possible, but very difficult. I'm doing it right now.

I am aware that it would just be better to next her and move on, but I'm waiting for a LJBF or a LFRN. There are only two possible outcomes.

Just game her as best you can, and if it doesn't work out, then just pick a new girl.
 

KaminoSS

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i wouldnt say its worth it.


the average HS "relationship" doesnot last that long, the troubles required to get her is not worth it. stay friends and next her ass
 

splinterkb

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Your best bet to date someone is to just go straight for the dating, and not to become friends first. If you wait too long, she'll just consider you a friend, and if you like her and tell her that, she'll probably just say that she doesn't want to screw up your friendship, and you will be fvcked.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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