"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is it worth it to try approaches at the fair?

Zapp Brannigan

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The fair will be in my area next month, and was thinking about going. When going in the past it wasn't to bad. Made some single serving friends, and talked to a couple cute girls. It helped a lot when I was horrible with approaches, and still felt awkward around girls. Not a DJ yet, but am more collected and confident around girls now.

Before going in the past I went thinking just about the fair, and thought about the girls as just a bonus. But now when thinking about going the only thing that seems enticing is the girls. But am not sure if it'd be worth going for just that reason.

It always seems that if you go out of your way like that especially with girls, you're setting yourself up for disappointment. Most of the girls there will probably be with boyfriends or groups that are too large to approach anyway. Then if I did meet an approachable girl that seemed interested, I probably wouldn't ask them out unless they seemed really great. I try to be careful of the girls I ask out, and like to have some idea of how they act before making a move. It just seems that hanging with a random girl like that might be fun, but not enough to go by.

Just wondering what everyones thoughts were about it. Is it worth going to the fair just to try approaching girls?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Leprechaun2013

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If all else fails you can always approach The Bearded Lady:crackup:

I have a simple rule for meeting women: Always approach when the opportunity presents but don't go out approaching for the sake of approaching, let it happen naturally.

Fairs are for entertainment and having fun with friends or a girl you bring along. I wouldn't buy a ticket cruising for chicks when they will be with someone else. Just go and have fun with friends. If there is a opportunity to meet a chick......approach. Don't just go for the sake of approaching too many guys fail with approaches because they put too much pressure to get numbers. Go and have fun. let it happen naturally if you see a hot chick at the right moment....approach. Don't be the creepy walking up to women with her friend just for the sake of approaching.
 

Poop1337

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If the fair is not far out of the way and free or only a few bucks sure it's worth it.
 
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