Is it true young marriages fail

[sazc]

you guys get offended wayyy to easy! I dont have the answer to the divorce question and I certainly didn't mean to make anyone feel as if I was blanket statement categorizing anyone.

I can only speak from my own perspective and experiences. dont go trying to categorize me as attention seeking or looking to get accepted because you dont like what I post or are simply an a$$hole.

I'm not looking for anything here, just posting and reading.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Who the fvck us seeking attention anywhere? I'm posting like you are posting. I have no need for any extra attention, get the fvck over yourself.

It's called 'being mature' when you can discuss topics without assigning blanket statements. It's that simple.

If I were posting on a pregnant women forum you would be right to say Im looking for attention, too bad its you the woman posting in a pick-up self improvement forum for guys..

Talking about blank statement who was the first to come out with "you're immature" just because DATA contradicted you?

Do not expect any special treatment here, we call bulsh1tters for what they are here no matter the age, race or sex, if you need reassurance or hugs go to a girlpower forum or facebook.

Anyway calm down and keep your emotions in check, swearing is not gonna make your wrong points right and surely wont get you any simpathy.

Ps write all your stuff in a single message instead of flooding anytime your hear rate increases.

 

[sazc]

Women start divorces becuase they still get his money while not even have to prented to like it at night.

Take away government and law from marriage and forget those stats.

This was actually the reason I replied with the immature comment. It's a blanket statement. idk what you are talking about with your "DATA" comment - but it really doesnt matter.

If I were posting on a pregnant women forum you would be right to say Im looking for attention, too bad its you the woman posting in a pick-up self improvement forum for guys..
Talking about blank statement who was the first to come out with "you're immature" just because DATA contradicted you?
Do not expect any special treatment here, we call bulsh1tters for what they are here no matter the age, race or sex, if you need reassurance or hugs go to a girlpower forum or facebook.
Anyway calm down and keep your emotions in check, swearing is not gonna make your wrong points right and surely wont get you any simpathy.
Ps write all your stuff in a single message instead of flooding anytime your hear rate increases.

No, if you were posting on a pregnant women's forum, and were keeping on topic, I would not assume you are attention seeking, I would assume that you have something to contribute. I'm not an a$$ and I dont need an ego boost by trying to look like an alpha anything.

I like well thought out contributions, or at least have some thought. Blanket statements, that generalize a segment of anything, lead me to believe that the poster is immature, at least in terms if having the ability to be analytical and/or critically think. I would never say "all men...." because "all anything" is always false.

How come you assumed it's the guys fault LOL

I didnt and I dont. I only know, can comment, from a females perspective. I know females who filed for divorce and the truth is that their behavior was wretched and they caused it.

I've read/followed a lot of what you guys post/complain about females. I dont disagree, and you are not wrong. Females can be everything you say they are. I get the struggle. I'm not here to convince you that you are wrong, about anything. I'm not attention seeking. I'm just reading and posting. I'm sure i will have to post that again because every so often, one of you like to jump all over me for sport.....

 

[Poonani Maker]

Make her respect you so much that she borderline fears you.

I've noticed this too in Men who still have her tied. I believe the woman actually fears Death from him. My dad was somewhat the same early on and threatened not only my mom but both of us during a really bad time when he was injured and on meds. My mother, however, worked with Judges/lawyers and such and had quite a few "legal" men putting a bug in her ear all the time (1 or 2 probably also influencing her to leave my dad -- she would tell her "girlfriend" who she also worked with just about EVERYTHING about her relationship with my dad...she is no longer "friends" with this woman who was most certainly influential in breaking my dad's marriage apart -- I remember this women riding in our car when they'd drop me off to school -- she too was twice divorced and married to a 3rd out n' out DEADBEAT Loooooser -- her ex was a soon-to-be Millionaire TECH company start-up owner). She had council in her daily work and she ended up cheating on my dad (with a co-worker who she remains with to this Day, over 2 decades later). She was one of those rare few women however who gave my dad the house and wanted no alimony etc etc. I was already in college out on my own so. But she kept coming home later from work and my dad was oblivious to what that MEANT. He was kinda old school (Marine) and really didn't give a fvck or didn't Show that he gave a fvck that she left him (but I know he Did). My dad, spittin image of Nick Nolte, btw, pretty similar in movement and personality as well but different voice. My mother, one of those rare few, that would say, "You can have it all, I just want out..." She had a good job and pension(s). But the takeaway from all this is that my mother was with MEN (legal men, the courts) all day every day for years while married to my dad, so that was bound to peel her away from him who had a totally separate blue collar career and job. She was too high society for him. She tried to make him take a high society job, but that didn't last long cause whenever a supervisor wanted to flex his weight or put pressure on my dad, my dad just assumed Knock the fvcker out! very violent. I mean these were Hot air balloon RICH society people he was working for and he had no business being around these people (he was strictly a brawler in a suit n' tie - that wasn't gonna go well). My dad was VERY VIOLENT (he always thought he wouldn't live past 30) and my mom didn't like violence, so she said.

But I believe that in the early years my mother may have thought my dad would KILL her if she did anything (like "cheat" or whatever). As time went on though, he is really very lenient (and never really knew WHY he so easily attracted and bedded women -- I'd say it was his looks, brain, and willingness to fight ANYBODY anywhere and get the upper hand if said dude was bigger or whatever than him). He'd beat the sh!t outta people in FRONT of my mother, and it scared her (and she "didn't like it"), but yet she clung to him anyway. Years though, passing time, will make a woman doubt her man, and she'll no longer feel threatened by him. This is why feminism and the police state is so bad for us guys. We are not allowed to exercise our might anymore, or to exert our PHYSICAL power anymore (either by slapping/hitting a woman or not -- btw my dad NEVER hit my mom so I know that for a fact and he always told me never to that it was Cowardly to hit someone smaller/weaker than you -- *edit* but come to think of it he hit me close-fisted a couple of times in the face but I suppose he was just trying to wake me up to respect him more or change my outlook in some way or something not sure if he was REALLY angry at me and hit me or if he was just trying to shake me up to change me because he saw weakness I really don't know).