"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is it true that interested will never really try to confuse us?

TheSlasher

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Hey Guys,

So I've seen it twice on the forum now. It says on both that interested girls will never really try to confuse you. How true is this? Isn't it that every girl knows the trick and so they will pull out so you'll chase them and ultimately catch you? As far as you know, what is the reason for this? But then again, it is stated in Anti-Dump's Machine that only one side must use strategy for the seduction to work its magic. I still don't have that much experience on this so I can't really put my two cents. So yeah, it'd be good if you guys would talk more than just theory by incorporating your experiences on your replies.

Thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yes, Anti-Dump states avoid women who are not HIGHLY interested in you.

A lot of women will give you the run around and games (even though she may be HIGHLY interested in you). Even then, don't waste your time and energy - focus on women who you QUALIFY and WANT to work with you - per Anti-Dump.

This is true for my own DJ game.

Too many women out there, learn to NEXT as soon as you smell her gaming you. Anti-Dump also said, a woman who is using GAME can not work with a DJ - because it creates a STALEMATE.

LEARN to WALK AWAY after that - and she will chase you IF she decide to get rid of her game, if not - forget about her right away until she chases.

You will save yourself immense pain trying to figure her out and get into her head, which NEVER works (then you end up on here posting a million questions trying to get US to figure out HER head LOL....).

You must find a woman who has NO GAME - then all this works that you are reading from this website.

Don't forget - there are TOO MANY women out there. Don't be stuck on just one.

Good luck.

Exodus
 

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TheSlasher said:
Hey Guys,

So I've seen it twice on the forum now. It says on both that interested girls will never really try to confuse you. How true is this? Isn't it that every girl knows the trick and so they will pull out so you'll chase them and ultimately catch you? As far as you know, what is the reason for this? But then again, it is stated in Anti-Dump's Machine that only one side must use strategy for the seduction to work its magic. I still don't have that much experience on this so I can't really put my two cents. So yeah, it'd be good if you guys would talk more than just theory by incorporating your experiences on your replies.

Thanks.
Initially yes they will not confuse you. As time progresses where they push for more and you are unwilling to commit - they may give up, pull out the bag of tricks, or remain stubborn unwilling to chase you any further. Girls with a good head on their shoulders will make the decision to eject even though they remain attracted and interested secretely hoping one day youll return as LTR material.

Roissy says it best: there’s something you should know about *******s and their unusual pull on women. Beta suck-ups are rejected before they even know where they went wrong; an ***hole can dump a quarry full of his toxic slurry into a woman’s heart and she’ll still leave the door to her pvssy open a crack for him, based on nothing more than a slim hope he’ll redeem himself in her eyes.
 

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I see, this is because lately, I've been getting into the "no woman's worth it" mentality and also, I've observed that I really get lots of women showing me their "come ons" and that all I've got to do is play the numbers game.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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