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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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Is it tough to have dating success with White women in the USA if you aren't Black

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OR White?

It seems to me that most White women only go for White men and a small number may have a fetish for Black men. I have never seen Brown or ethnic men (Latinos, Indians, Arabs, Asians) date White women in high numbers.

Anyone want to share their experience?

<-- Tunisian guy here with brown skin.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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depends on your area dude, and even then, it's never a limiting factor.

i'm indian and my last LTR was with a white chick.
 

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Brown Spice said:
OR White?

It seems to me that most White women only go for White men and a small number may have a fetish for Black men. I have never seen Brown or ethnic men (Latinos, Indians, Arabs, Asians) date White women in high numbers.

Anyone want to share their experience?

<-- Tunisian guy here with brown skin.
to some extend you are right, especially if you are stranger , but you will have more luck if you are in class or in workplace .
 

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Stay in your own race, it makes things easier to relate through coultures.
 

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I am currently in Tennessee and my one night stands/flings so far have been

1. A Venezuelan girl who was good looking but looked kinda Middle Eastern
2. An Asian - White mix who looked unique
3. An Italian girl who didn't look White at all
4. A French girl of Algerian heritage who did not look White
5. A Puerto Rican girl who looked sterotypically Latina
6. A Mexican girl who looked a lot like Nina Mercedez facewise
7. A Brazilian girl who looked Indian
8. A Colombian girl (best looking one I have ever been with)

I want to try my luck with White women here in the US, any recommendations as to what cities are good for me? I am darker than the average Middle Eastern (brown skinned).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i don't understand the fascination with white women (disclaimer i'm married to one)

i don't understand why guys make white women the end all be all of *****. i guess beucase i've lived with one so long i mean they are chicks. just like toher chicks.


**** i'm black and as a single dude i would have killed for that lay list. never has an asian girl or a french girl or russian or any of that i wish i did. sounds fun. **** a white girl. i'd loved to have bedded a egyptian looking chick. i like exotic though

nothing in the dating game peeves me off more than seeing a black guy approach a white girl and say "so do you date black guys". i mean what the **** is she supposed to say lol. and worse, by saying that you are prettying much putting her on the pedstol. who the **** cares what she normally does im not normal
 

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What part of Tennesssee are you from because I live there and I'm black. The only girls I've done stuff with were white girls, but they're the only girls that have shown me interest. It honestly depends on your location. Nashville is more open minded than any part of the state, but I would stay away from Memphis and East Tn.
 

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Brown Spice said:
OR White?

It seems to me that most White women only go for White men and a small number may have a fetish for Black men. I have never seen Brown or ethnic men (Latinos, Indians, Arabs, Asians) date White women in high numbers.

Anyone want to share their experience?

<-- Tunisian guy here with brown skin.
Don't tell them you are Tunisian. No one knows where Tunisia is and chicks would just assume you are a terrorist. Instead, say that you are Indian. American women go nuts for Indian guys.
 

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Brown Spice = Indian Race Troll

Whatsa matter, faggot? Run out of fake ID-card blanks?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lol I'm Spanish and all I lay are white women. I guess it just depends on where you live.
 

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1) White guys
2) Black people - some women love it.
3) Latino Heat

If you're Chinese or Indian, the former especially, you're going to have a tough time. If you're Mediterranean looking you're good to go.
 

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Why the hell are you guys taking this post seriously? IRT strikes again.
 

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Lol I'm Spanish and all I lay are white women. I guess it just depends on where you live.
Since when are spaniards not white?
 

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I guess we all want what we can't have. For me an all american kind of white woman is appealing.

Yes I do look Indian, same color as Jesse from Simple Pickup, he seems to be doing well for himself but my face features make people assume I am latino.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I am in Nashville and it is all black and white here, I have never seen latino dudes date white women even though there are a lot of latinos here.
 

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Brown Spice said:
I am in Nashville and it is all black and white here, I have never seen latino dudes date white women even though there are a lot of latinos here.
The best I can tell you is to talk to as many white women until one bites. It's going to be like fishing for a fish in a small pond though. Davidson county should be your best friend.
 

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I am in college right now and plan on becoming a doctor. Yet it seems that down here race matters a lot, even Indian doctors aren't seen much with White women down here and I heard it is common for them to hook up with White females. Due to having darker skin people confuse me for Indian a lot.
 
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i don't understand the fascination with white women (disclaimer i'm married to one)

i don't understand why guys make white women the end all be all of *****. i guess beucase i've lived with one so long i mean they are chicks. just like toher chicks.
foreigners (women especially) pedestalize whiteness, and manifest that in seeking a white significant other. when i was in college and high school i routinely heard my east asian friends tell me how their parents want them to marry up (i.e. into whiteness)
 

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I see a lot of white men with asian women.

The asian men in my town date anything but white women, seen em with asian, black, and latina girls. Know two engaged to beautiful middle eastern girls.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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