"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is it too much to offer company to a 4 dates girl to a final oral exam?

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Hello, new member here.

I've been dating this girl for about a month. We get along good and she has even said that she adores me. She does nice things to me such as buying me a pair of socks. 3 days from now she's having an ultimate oral exam that will decide whether she graduates from her university or not. I'm thinking of accompanying her to the campus until the exam finishes. Just to make her less anxious about the exam. Do you think this is too much? Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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you sure you want to be there while she proves how good she is at bl0wj0bs?

EDIT: nevermind i just noticed you will wait for her outside until she finishes. just make sure she brushes her teeth before you pecked her lips.
 
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haha dude, you should have just said exam, putting the word "oral" around here is just asking for crazy responses. But in all seriousness make sure you get good head first and compliment her on her oral skills.
 
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Is this a question? Use your best judgement, do what you think is best.
 
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I think you should offer to take her there and/or pick her up, if your really want to do that. DONT wait around for her while she is taking the exam and dont let her think you are going to wait around for her. Go do something else during that time that will benefit you, like workout, read, etc. Have her call you or text you when shes done with the exam and then go get her, if she does in fact want a ride/hangout with you afterward. If she turn's down your initial offer to take her, dont keep pushing to take her, let her get there on her own.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You are trying too hard.

Yes, if you like her and if you have the time, wait for her. You will score tons of points.
 
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The best thing you can do for both is make sure she is relaxed for the exam, this way she will succeed and even more important she will associate you with positive feelings.

Therefore my suggestion is similar to borknagar's one, make sure she gives you head first and after that compliment her on her oral skill(doesnt matter if shes good or not at it) so she will be more self-confident about her oral skills and succeed at her oral exam.

Once she will pass the oral exam you can tell her she is ready for a post graduate degree in internal anatomy, provided by you of course.
 
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