"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is it too late?

AlphaNoob

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I met this girl two years ago she tried to escalate and i refused (old beta me) After that we didn't see each other much. However now, she seems somewhat interested since she's the one initiating saying hi and i see her looking at me at times. I asked for her number and she gave it. But I'm kinda worried that asking her after all this time would make it more complicated for me to make advances and escalate. Thoughts? :confused:
Also just wondering. If she doesn't reply, is there something witty i can say without sounding too needy to call her out on it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Harry Wilmington

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You asked her for the number and she gave it to you - that's all you need to know. She's interested. At the very least, she's not creeped out by you. What to do now? Follow these simple steps:

Step 1: Call her up
Step 2: Ask her out to a specific location. Make sure you give her a choice of two days (i.e. "Would Tuesday or Thursday work for you?")
Step 3: Do NOT call/text her anymore; save your next conversation with her for the date
Step 4: On the date, look for signals of interest from her - i.e. light touching on shoulder/arm, her staring at you, etc. - and escalate accordingly
Step 5: At the end of the night, kiss her. Specifically, go in for the hug and then, as you're pulling back, give her a brief stare (like half a second) then go in for the kiss. If she likes you, she'll kiss back; if not... well, at least you'll know her interest!

Very, very easy to execute. Hope this helps!
 

AlphaNoob

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Harry Wilmington said:
You asked her for the number and she gave it to you - that's all you need to know. She's interested. At the very least, she's not creeped out by you. What to do now? Follow these simple steps:

Step 1: Call her up
Step 2: Ask her out to a specific location. Make sure you give her a choice of two days (i.e. "Would Tuesday or Thursday work for you?")
Step 3: Do NOT call/text her anymore; save your next conversation with her for the date
Step 4: On the date, look for signals of interest from her - i.e. light touching on shoulder/arm, her staring at you, etc. - and escalate accordingly
Step 5: At the end of the night, kiss her. Specifically, go in for the hug and then, as you're pulling back, give her a brief stare (like half a second) then go in for the kiss. If she likes you, she'll kiss back; if not... well, at least you'll know her interest!

Very, very easy to execute. Hope this helps!
Ok that I understand but for step 3 what if I have class with this girl
 

j.619

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Espi said:
Chicks don't have statute of limitations
I like this. Absolutely correct, especially if there was previous rapport. Easier than a cold approach.
 
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