Is it them or is it me ?

[ashman1]

WTF is going on ? im doing everything right ! im approaching , kinoing, eye contact , number closes , getting IOI's , sendings SOI's and still nothing !
someone please tell me , is it them or is it me , WTF am i doing WRONG ?!?!

This is getting frustrating - N :crazy:

 

[procanto]

Hey you are so confuse in your self. Please solve your question yourself. If you are able to put more information then i will try to make your help..
Thanks

 

[jtrain 289]

if your really doing all those things than its them . You gotta remember just because a girl likes you or thinks your hot or wants to ****your brains out doesnt mean she will. Girls reject guys they like and get with guys they dont like all the time. Honestly girls nowadays are just a huge contradiction of themselves just keep doing what your doing until you find one thats alittle sane but that can take a while lol.

 

[Alexander the Great]

What you are doing wrong is extremely obvious from what you posted and the way you posted it in.

You are attaching value to the outcome of your efforts at approaching. You are needy. While it isn't necessarily that this sentiment shows in your actions and that being the reason for the lack of getting something back, more importantly you are probably allowing yourself and your value to be determined by your level of success at approaching. And that is the gist of what being a DJ is not about. Let alone approaching and subsequent actions.

Approach because you want to have FUN and LEARN. Not because you NEED a date.

So yes, it's most likely you. Because it's ALWAYS you. You can't change the world. You can only change yourself. So either you are approaching the wrong women, or you are approaching in the wrong way, with the wrong mindset.

Think on it.

 

[ashman1]

What you are doing wrong is extremely obvious from what you posted and the way you posted it in.

You are attaching value to the outcome of your efforts at approaching. You are needy. While it isn't necessarily that this sentiment shows in your actions and that being the reason for the lack of getting something back, more importantly you are probably allowing yourself and your value to be determined by your level of success at approaching. And that is the gist of what being a DJ is not about. Let alone approaching and subsequent actions.

Approach because you want to have FUN and LEARN. Not because you NEED a date.

So yes, it's most likely you. Because it's ALWAYS you. You can't change the world. You can only change yourself. So either you are approaching the wrong women, or you are approaching in the wrong way, with the wrong mindset.

Think on it.

Speak ,Brotha !

 

[Quiksilver]

WTF is going on ? im doing everything right ! im approaching , kinoing, eye contact , number closes , getting IOI's , sendings SOI's and still nothing !
someone please tell me , is it them or is it me , WTF am i doing WRONG ?!?!

Just because you're doing all the right things, doesn't mean you're doing them WELL.

Keep trying and spend some time after each approach thinking of how you could have done it better. That's what I did, and it worked. The girl goes to the guy who makes the least mistakes, and you correct mistakes through my favorite quote: "Practice, practice, practice..."

Read some material in the DJB before heading out next time as well. Don't forget your image/style/appearance too, they're just as important as what game you spit.

cheers