is it the same everywhere

[andy surianto]

hi guys...

i've been wodering...
most of u guys are caucasian...

and living somewhere in us or europe...
ofcourse girls there are more open minded in many aspect.

i think our girls here are a lot more conservative bout sex and relationship... sex is still kinda taboo here. traditional value is still strict here.

girls here are somewhat a lot more passive then in other country.


so what i want to ask... is ...
is it different...??

 

[I'm Joe Dirt]

Yes, culture changes everything.

This site is designed with the western culture in mind, I think, and a lot of what we say here about the attitude of women may not apply in other countries.

That is not to say that NONE of the things we say don't apply, but certainly if young women aren't allowed to date in your country then obviously anything we say here about dance clubs and the like might not apply to you.

So as far as specific tips and tricks, some of them won't work where you are if your culture is different. But as far as I know in every culture the guy should still remain confident and not let women control him. Tips about self improvement, therefore, should be universal.

 

[MacDiddy]

I would say that in Jakarta the same methods would apply to 9's or 10's as they would in any developed world.

 

[CoRVeTTe6699]

yeah, girls are a lot different in the us.. lets just say that they are a little bit "more open"

 

[Big Eee Zee]

Originally posted by CoRVeTTe6699
yeah, girls are a lot different in the us.. lets just say that they are a little bit "more open"

...and flaky, and b!tchy, and $lutty, and more likely to fvck you over...

Trust me, not everything you're missing is great.

 

[andy surianto]

hahhaha

i think yeah... girls there must be *****es....
hahahhah
here.... if a girl have sex before she get married...
that will bring a great shame to her family...

and most of the time.... if a guy.. f**k a girl... he got to marry that girl..... huahhahah....



but the great news here... is if u had b**g a girl.... she will never think of leaving u anymore... but b**nging a girl in my society is a very hard task.....

N.B. I am a chinese living in Indonesia...

 

[IRONMAN22]

:crackup: you can say banging mang, maybe not ****ing though..

my belief toward your country is, and correct me if Im wrong here, if you catch a girl on an emotional aspect or like give her security, love, this girl is yours.

what I think you should do? find out how to get these girls in a simple reltionship if you know how, and **** 'em all

 

[JonJack]

Definitely different. That is why understanding the concept of being a DJ is more important that following some of the tips. Some general tips are still good, like "going out and taking action". But when you talk about specific types of actions, then culture and society will influence what sort of actions will be effective.

So, understand the concept of being a DJ and then apply it to your respective culture and society. Learn about what girls from your community would respond to and what they would be insulted by. Best would be to test things in the field. Just to understand the female responses a little better.