is it the interest level or just doclove?

[gabrielshear]

what is exactly the interest level?

just wanted to ask all don juaners who have read the system and are good at implementing it's techniques, how do I calculate a girl's interest level?

for example doc love in his letter & answers talks about 85% or 40% interest level. do you have any formula for working that out? please help me as i am aspiring to become a real don juan!



gabrielshear

an aspiring don juan...

....we never stop learning.

 

[Abnigh9]

No, there's no formula. It's just a mere approxiamation in our head.

 

[Paradox]

Like Abnigh9 said, it is more like a guess-timate. There are several factors involved in coming to this percentage.

It's a guess based on:
1) Reaction to kino
2) Body language
3) Common human reactions (e.g. if you stand on the corner and ask 100 women "Do you want to fkk?" 99 out of that 100 will say no)
4) Eye contact
5) General experience with women
6) Male intuition
7) What they say in "womaneese"

Sometimes if given enough clues the guy's here will tell you that a girl is 100% not interested in you. How can they tell from a paragraph that the girl is not interested in you? Easy. It's the things that she said and did, that when combined together form an impression.

If a girl tells you that she will "call you" this is womaneese for "I am not interested in you." If she doesn't call then her IL (Interest level) is "0%"

If a girl says that she will call you on Wed but she calls on Thurs and is receptive to a date then her IL is about 75%. She lost some percentage for not calling but recovers by calling the next day and taking the date.

The same time that we are rating them they are rating us. Our scale starts at 100% high interest. We should assume that the girl likes us and react accordingly. One PU guru once said that we should pretend that they are our girlfriend already. The girl may lose interest for some reason. We use the IL scale to continually check our chances. What chances do I have to get her? If she is 100% interested then my chances are excellent.

You can play with the numbers but basically it is like the point system that girls use. Guys get points for being funny, having a car, having social proof, being assertive ect...Guys lose points for no eye contact, being boring, unhygenic (sic) ect...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Paradox
Like Abnigh9 said, it is more like a guess-timate. There are several factors involved in coming to this percentage.
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Good post...

 

[myfriendblu]

Nice paradox,
thats pretty much it, although i give it a 1 to 10 scale instead of the percent thing. Doc lov is GREAT. Learning to read IL is THE MOST IMPORTANT THING A DJ CAN LEARN. It was only until i learned this did I start having really good success. Both Doc Love and Tom Leykis have been the two biggest inspirations for me.

 

[gabrielshear]

to my friendblu

hi dear myfriendblu,

in your last post on this thread you said you were able to read the interest level. but unfortunately you failed to tell us how. It would be interesting if you tell us how you manage.

thanks

btw you mentioned doclove and another guru, I never heard about him does he have a website or something?

 

[myfriendblu]

Re: to my friendblu

Originally posted by gabrielshear
hi dear myfriendblu,

in your last post on this thread you said you were able to read the interest level. but unfortunately you failed to tell us how. It would be interesting if you tell us how you manage.

thanks

btw you mentioned doclove and another guru, I never heard about him does he have a website or something?

Hey,
Do a search under my name for previous posts. I got all sorts of stuff about IL. Im a NUTT when it comes to reading IL. I do believe it is the MOST IMPORTANT aspect of becomming a dj. Some people say its just having the balls to approach women is the key, but i beg to differ. Anyone can approach women, but the true DJ's learn how to sort out who is worthwhile and who is not. Paradox has a good explanation about it in his 7 rules posted above. its really difficult to explain. Its just a feeling of such that you need to learn and develop. Just a sense. It takes practice. There is also quite a bit of stuff on IL in the tips section as well as the bible.

Tom Leykis is a radio talk show DJ. He hosts a 3 hour talk show in most big city markets. I HIGHLY recommend him. I think he is fantastic. Check out his website - www.blowmeuptom.com. Check out your local area radio for times, he may be on in your city.