Igetit!
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What causes a woman to be an attention wh*re? I was just thinking about my dating history,how some women I approached,I either had a date or two then it was over,or I ended up in a LTR. But then there was a third type scenario in which I'd talk to a woman every now and then before asking her out,then when I'd finally pop the question,I'd get turned down. She'd turn me down,but it felt like she still wanted me to continue talking to/pursuing her.
Although I do realize now that all they wanted was just the attention,what I don't understand is what caused this. And this has happened a couple of times. I know that women like attention from men,I mean they wouldn't spend three extra hours in the mirror every morning doing their make-up,hair,trying to find the perfect outfit for nothing. Or going to the exetremes of getting boob implants and other procedures if it didn't get some type of reaction from guys. So I do believe that women want attention men,from as many men as possible,however,they won't date all of them. Some of them they'll date,and the others,they'll just trying to keep them around just for the attention. This I know. What I don't get,is what it is that causes a guy to be put in one of the two catergories,the dating one or the just attention giving one. Maybe one of you guys have figured this one out.
So which is it? Is it just the women themselves who decide the catergory to put you in,or is it the way you approach her that determines where you'll be?
Although I do realize now that all they wanted was just the attention,what I don't understand is what caused this. And this has happened a couple of times. I know that women like attention from men,I mean they wouldn't spend three extra hours in the mirror every morning doing their make-up,hair,trying to find the perfect outfit for nothing. Or going to the exetremes of getting boob implants and other procedures if it didn't get some type of reaction from guys. So I do believe that women want attention men,from as many men as possible,however,they won't date all of them. Some of them they'll date,and the others,they'll just trying to keep them around just for the attention. This I know. What I don't get,is what it is that causes a guy to be put in one of the two catergories,the dating one or the just attention giving one. Maybe one of you guys have figured this one out.
So which is it? Is it just the women themselves who decide the catergory to put you in,or is it the way you approach her that determines where you'll be?