"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it the end if u fail a test?

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Lost In the Seas

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This girl that i was very attracted to, and im equally to her, tested me before a date. I of course didn't realize and i proably blew it by acting weird and angry.

Is there any way that i can stand up again in the relationship although i failed the test? And please don't tell me to next her coz there's a million girls out there, she is just different, i can next any other girl but she is someone im willing to put the extra effort into. So please help me out fellas.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sounds like your IL level is a bit high with this one, but anyways,

just use the incident generally as a chance to learn to be more relaxed and not take things so seriously - whoever you're with
 
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