GeniuzKhrist
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Is it that hard?
Countless threads, posts, and replies, all about the same questions, problems, and bitterness, but most of you don't realize that the game barely changes, and if it does its miniscule, in fact the only thing that seems to change is how most of you use and interpert the information and advice given here. It's all basic ****, so simplistic that you make it some complex therom of craziness. If you like a girl, for any reason, no matter the circumstance walk up to them and introduce yourself, forget the bible, forget the crazy pick up lines, put on your confident stride, smile, say "Hi, my name is ****! Whats your name? What are you up to?" Always ask, before you leave, those three words we've been taught to ask "Whats your number?" Its that easy, rule numero uno is Rejection is better than regret, dont give the excuses of timing, she's with her friends or mom, shes working out, none of it matters, you're sole mission is to get a yes or no, and walk away the same way as you walked up, head up, confident, and proceed on about YOUR LIFE.
Now we have the guys that don't know what desperate, needy, and clingly look like, and if you're asking yourself who are these people, its ****ing you! So you were having a great text conversation or online convo and you popped the question about meeting up, and the girl goes silent for longer than usual, what do you do? Freak the **** out, right? Message her shortly after and say some dumbass response like "no answer" "you still there?' Yeah she's still there moron, and you asking twice or saying any of that **** makes me want to feed you your damn phone. Why? oh beceause you're desperate, and needy. If i ask a girl to meet and don't get a immediate response, I don't care, I am a text and drop person, meaning i type and put the phone down and proceed with whatever im doing, most of you sound like you're holding on to your phone in these convos like its the only thing keeping your kidneys from failing. Once again its simple, fire and forget, you've asked, its on her to accept, and hopefully you have multiple back up chicks, because if you don't i can see why you're so desperate. Quit with the pressure after you've applied the inital pressure, its simply a waste of time.
If you break up with your girl or vice versa, go NC instantly and move the hell forward. I've had three relationships end, all three I've gone NC with, and its for the best, espically if you knew the details of my relationships. NC hasn't brought any of them back, nor brought me back to them, but its just a good thing to do for yourself. I dont care how you handle your social media BS, because its just social media BS
.
Now there are some people here, well everywhere that say you shouldn't try to go back to a old FWB after a breakup or during a dry spell, but in my personal experience, recently with three old flings and after my recent break up (7 days ago) all three responded and all three agreed to meet up this week and weekend, with one inviting me over the same day to **** and eat pizza. So I say you can rekindle old FWB by being fun, playful, and non invasive. Just don't go in with high hopes that your past history together has any pull today. I say go for it, the worst response is "no."
So I ask, have we forgot what its like to be a man, what Pook, Desi, Senor, or Anti have told us a decade ago, all of it still applies to real life, the only thing i dont really agree with is the call or text back after dates, simply because its a far different time, girls get attention from everywhere, and they want to talk or text sooner than later. Doesnt mean you get pulled in to long ass convos but a casual, flirty, convo to increase you're lay chance is ideal. Go back to the roots of obtaining women, and it all starts with obtaining and keeping who you are first. Getting a girl or girls is not the success, its a great part about becoming succsessful but it doesn't mean you've made it.
Tinder, I use it with high success, I have friends that now use it with high success, by following just a few practical rules, but once again i told them what i was told long ago, dont be contained by formula, what works today may not tomorrow, so have a few escape routes to get you back in the mix. Swipe on whom you like, and if they swipe you cool, nothing we can do about chance in this situation. Have no more than four pics, dont have more than one group pic. I personally only have two pics, and in my two years on Tinder I've had over 1700 matches. Your profile shouldn't be directly sexual or more than two sentences. My profile reads "Shorty get down, good lord!" in reference to the Blackstreet song No Diggity, just off that alone i've been messaged first countless times.
Next when you finally get that match dont worry about messaging to soon, don't over think it. My first message is their name followed by two !! Ex, Melissa!! Now you wait, most chicks will respond with your name Jacob!! now its simple your response is "OMG, are you copying (or mocking) me?!?!" You'll usually get any number of responses from this, its funny, non invasive, its very imaginitive, the acronym OMG really plays a sarcastic point. Whatever there response is, especially if its "No, lol emoji" or any dumb **** like that is, "well i already inspired you once today, I bet i can do it again, any wager?" She will again respond to this, and you inspiring her, unbeknown to her is getting her number, in less than 5 messages, ideally, you should be able to nab it here by being funny, and not to invasive, just be playful, and make her want to know more about this completly random guy. All tinder boils done to is being random, playful and fun. Because thats exactly what they want an ideal date to be like. Once again this is all fire and forget, say what you want to say, and dont worry about her response or response time.
Dress for success, even if you dont have a bunch of dispensible income for clothing you can hit up discount stores and find stuff thats really fashionable or has great potential. Get a nice haircut, check for local and global trends, dont dollow direct suit, get something that fits your face and head shape, clean up your facial hair, doesnt have to be a big beard or no beard, just make it slick and sexy. Google the latest fashion for your age group, and budget yourself for 5-7 outfits, that interchange somewhat with each other, i can make 4 outfits turn in to 10 outfits. Chinos, blazers, Cuban button ups, leather slip ons, knit polos, and light floral shirts are incredible. Denim is making a nice comeback this year, look in to that, if you love jeans as much as i do. My biggest accessories are a simple bracelet, necklace that barely goes past the soft end of my throat, and a brown leather band rose gold watch, they are beautiful. But really 5 out of 10 times i dont wear any accessories. I feel like girls notice that about me and it kinda makes me a little different, not trying so hard, even though it takes 10 seconds to put on a watch and necklace.
Once again, fire and forget, is it that hard?
Countless threads, posts, and replies, all about the same questions, problems, and bitterness, but most of you don't realize that the game barely changes, and if it does its miniscule, in fact the only thing that seems to change is how most of you use and interpert the information and advice given here. It's all basic ****, so simplistic that you make it some complex therom of craziness. If you like a girl, for any reason, no matter the circumstance walk up to them and introduce yourself, forget the bible, forget the crazy pick up lines, put on your confident stride, smile, say "Hi, my name is ****! Whats your name? What are you up to?" Always ask, before you leave, those three words we've been taught to ask "Whats your number?" Its that easy, rule numero uno is Rejection is better than regret, dont give the excuses of timing, she's with her friends or mom, shes working out, none of it matters, you're sole mission is to get a yes or no, and walk away the same way as you walked up, head up, confident, and proceed on about YOUR LIFE.
Now we have the guys that don't know what desperate, needy, and clingly look like, and if you're asking yourself who are these people, its ****ing you! So you were having a great text conversation or online convo and you popped the question about meeting up, and the girl goes silent for longer than usual, what do you do? Freak the **** out, right? Message her shortly after and say some dumbass response like "no answer" "you still there?' Yeah she's still there moron, and you asking twice or saying any of that **** makes me want to feed you your damn phone. Why? oh beceause you're desperate, and needy. If i ask a girl to meet and don't get a immediate response, I don't care, I am a text and drop person, meaning i type and put the phone down and proceed with whatever im doing, most of you sound like you're holding on to your phone in these convos like its the only thing keeping your kidneys from failing. Once again its simple, fire and forget, you've asked, its on her to accept, and hopefully you have multiple back up chicks, because if you don't i can see why you're so desperate. Quit with the pressure after you've applied the inital pressure, its simply a waste of time.
If you break up with your girl or vice versa, go NC instantly and move the hell forward. I've had three relationships end, all three I've gone NC with, and its for the best, espically if you knew the details of my relationships. NC hasn't brought any of them back, nor brought me back to them, but its just a good thing to do for yourself. I dont care how you handle your social media BS, because its just social media BS
.
Now there are some people here, well everywhere that say you shouldn't try to go back to a old FWB after a breakup or during a dry spell, but in my personal experience, recently with three old flings and after my recent break up (7 days ago) all three responded and all three agreed to meet up this week and weekend, with one inviting me over the same day to **** and eat pizza. So I say you can rekindle old FWB by being fun, playful, and non invasive. Just don't go in with high hopes that your past history together has any pull today. I say go for it, the worst response is "no."
So I ask, have we forgot what its like to be a man, what Pook, Desi, Senor, or Anti have told us a decade ago, all of it still applies to real life, the only thing i dont really agree with is the call or text back after dates, simply because its a far different time, girls get attention from everywhere, and they want to talk or text sooner than later. Doesnt mean you get pulled in to long ass convos but a casual, flirty, convo to increase you're lay chance is ideal. Go back to the roots of obtaining women, and it all starts with obtaining and keeping who you are first. Getting a girl or girls is not the success, its a great part about becoming succsessful but it doesn't mean you've made it.
Tinder, I use it with high success, I have friends that now use it with high success, by following just a few practical rules, but once again i told them what i was told long ago, dont be contained by formula, what works today may not tomorrow, so have a few escape routes to get you back in the mix. Swipe on whom you like, and if they swipe you cool, nothing we can do about chance in this situation. Have no more than four pics, dont have more than one group pic. I personally only have two pics, and in my two years on Tinder I've had over 1700 matches. Your profile shouldn't be directly sexual or more than two sentences. My profile reads "Shorty get down, good lord!" in reference to the Blackstreet song No Diggity, just off that alone i've been messaged first countless times.
Next when you finally get that match dont worry about messaging to soon, don't over think it. My first message is their name followed by two !! Ex, Melissa!! Now you wait, most chicks will respond with your name Jacob!! now its simple your response is "OMG, are you copying (or mocking) me?!?!" You'll usually get any number of responses from this, its funny, non invasive, its very imaginitive, the acronym OMG really plays a sarcastic point. Whatever there response is, especially if its "No, lol emoji" or any dumb **** like that is, "well i already inspired you once today, I bet i can do it again, any wager?" She will again respond to this, and you inspiring her, unbeknown to her is getting her number, in less than 5 messages, ideally, you should be able to nab it here by being funny, and not to invasive, just be playful, and make her want to know more about this completly random guy. All tinder boils done to is being random, playful and fun. Because thats exactly what they want an ideal date to be like. Once again this is all fire and forget, say what you want to say, and dont worry about her response or response time.
Dress for success, even if you dont have a bunch of dispensible income for clothing you can hit up discount stores and find stuff thats really fashionable or has great potential. Get a nice haircut, check for local and global trends, dont dollow direct suit, get something that fits your face and head shape, clean up your facial hair, doesnt have to be a big beard or no beard, just make it slick and sexy. Google the latest fashion for your age group, and budget yourself for 5-7 outfits, that interchange somewhat with each other, i can make 4 outfits turn in to 10 outfits. Chinos, blazers, Cuban button ups, leather slip ons, knit polos, and light floral shirts are incredible. Denim is making a nice comeback this year, look in to that, if you love jeans as much as i do. My biggest accessories are a simple bracelet, necklace that barely goes past the soft end of my throat, and a brown leather band rose gold watch, they are beautiful. But really 5 out of 10 times i dont wear any accessories. I feel like girls notice that about me and it kinda makes me a little different, not trying so hard, even though it takes 10 seconds to put on a watch and necklace.
Once again, fire and forget, is it that hard?
