Reverse interest level from falling to High again?
Ill tell you this girl I was meeting up with from myspace had Very high interest level in me but now I notice it is falling. I didn't realize how into me she was until she started taking away the amount of effort and time she was putting into actually staying in touch with me.....
We talked on msn alot
She used to call me before she even meet me...and she called after our first and second outings as well.
She used to always message me on myspace and bug me to get on msn if she noticed I was on myspace and not on msn.
She was re-arranging and putting me in front of her friends and work....this means she was giving her free time to me and blowing her friends off to hangout with me 3 times.
After hanging out 3 times I will admit...I was very very afc as far as kiss closing and being sexual.
I never kiss closed and had every opportunity handed to me on a gold plate.
It is just hitting me pretty hard now how stupid I was and how much of a pvssy I was. I still can't believe the situations presented to me where I did nothing at all. If your curious as to what I mean you can read about it here.....
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=130960
I just noticed that the attempts of her talking to me are dwindling down and she is talking to other dudes now....she actually apologized for being "distant" lately do to the fact that she has been incredibly busy via school and work.....its believable I guess. I noticed she had me on her "top 8" on myspace as number 2 for a while and I returned the favor by putting her at 2 as well.......just recently I noticed she took me off lol....dunno how significant that is but its just adding to the situation.
BUT.
We are hanging out again, or so she has agreed to it.....sometime this upcoming week.
And we both have tickets to the same concert later on in the month and we are going together.
She lives about 30-40 mins away from me. She drove here to meet me the first time....and I don't drive so I took a bus to her twice.....now she is coming here. We meet on myspace....she added me and basically started the whole interaction.
I guess I might just be obsessing over the whole thing, but im hoping im not too far gone and I can come back. I mean she is agreeing to hangout with me, and make plans in the future...so that can't be too bad.
I really just need another chance with her 1 on 1. I more or less have to man up and go for that kiss and stop being a pvssy because I think she probably thinks that I just want to be friends....I mean look at the opportunity I passed up...if you didn't read my other post from above^^ I recommend you do to fully understand what I mean.
Is it all that hard to jump back up there in her high interest category?
I know I am falling, and it's my own fault so I think I can turn the tables and get things going right by upping my physical contact and sexual behavior with her.
Gimme some tips.....she had high interest once before...its falling...but she is presenting me with more chances it seems, just not as often as before. And its harder to get a hold of her now. So is there any idea's you fella's may have? Also...we have both stated that we find each other attractive.
If the interest level was once high, and it is falling...it must be possible to bump it back up right? And if so , what do I need to do to get it goin again.
Ill tell you this girl I was meeting up with from myspace had Very high interest level in me but now I notice it is falling. I didn't realize how into me she was until she started taking away the amount of effort and time she was putting into actually staying in touch with me.....
We talked on msn alot
She used to call me before she even meet me...and she called after our first and second outings as well.
She used to always message me on myspace and bug me to get on msn if she noticed I was on myspace and not on msn.
She was re-arranging and putting me in front of her friends and work....this means she was giving her free time to me and blowing her friends off to hangout with me 3 times.
After hanging out 3 times I will admit...I was very very afc as far as kiss closing and being sexual.
I never kiss closed and had every opportunity handed to me on a gold plate.
It is just hitting me pretty hard now how stupid I was and how much of a pvssy I was. I still can't believe the situations presented to me where I did nothing at all. If your curious as to what I mean you can read about it here.....
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=130960
I just noticed that the attempts of her talking to me are dwindling down and she is talking to other dudes now....she actually apologized for being "distant" lately do to the fact that she has been incredibly busy via school and work.....its believable I guess. I noticed she had me on her "top 8" on myspace as number 2 for a while and I returned the favor by putting her at 2 as well.......just recently I noticed she took me off lol....dunno how significant that is but its just adding to the situation.
BUT.
We are hanging out again, or so she has agreed to it.....sometime this upcoming week.
And we both have tickets to the same concert later on in the month and we are going together.
She lives about 30-40 mins away from me. She drove here to meet me the first time....and I don't drive so I took a bus to her twice.....now she is coming here. We meet on myspace....she added me and basically started the whole interaction.
I guess I might just be obsessing over the whole thing, but im hoping im not too far gone and I can come back. I mean she is agreeing to hangout with me, and make plans in the future...so that can't be too bad.
I really just need another chance with her 1 on 1. I more or less have to man up and go for that kiss and stop being a pvssy because I think she probably thinks that I just want to be friends....I mean look at the opportunity I passed up...if you didn't read my other post from above^^ I recommend you do to fully understand what I mean.
Is it all that hard to jump back up there in her high interest category?
I know I am falling, and it's my own fault so I think I can turn the tables and get things going right by upping my physical contact and sexual behavior with her.
Gimme some tips.....she had high interest once before...its falling...but she is presenting me with more chances it seems, just not as often as before. And its harder to get a hold of her now. So is there any idea's you fella's may have? Also...we have both stated that we find each other attractive.
If the interest level was once high, and it is falling...it must be possible to bump it back up right? And if so , what do I need to do to get it goin again.
