Is it that hard to say NO, you dumb ho!

[Broham]

The past 12 girls I've gotten #s from have been busts. Either they flaked, gave a fake #, or just didn't pick up. IS IT THAT HARD TO SAY "NO, I DON'T WANT TO GIVE YOU IT?!?" Seriously, if you are gonna pull that ****, why even bother? It's not like the guy is gonna kill the girl if they don't give it. The ho says no, and then I don't have to waste my precious time.

I know you guys are gonna say the cold streak is my fault and I need to make some changes, which is partly true, but c'mon, you guys gotta agree with me here. Thanks for letting me vent.

 

[Wiesman44]

I used to have those kinda issues. But as soon as I grew up and learned the signs of no IL, I didnt mind those games they play. WHen I was total AFC, i'd call 'em a million times, keep asking them out, all really ridiculous **** b/c i didnt know better.

Now I think of it as a game. Girls don't usually say no to you. You have to learn to pick up on their lack of interest b/c they are expecting you to. Unfortunately, you just have to go by their rules in this respect.

 

[thefonz]

maybe if it's a confidence thing try lowering your standards and ask girls you know aren't gonna flake and work your way up from there to the hot ones.......YANKEES STILL SUCK

 

[Broham]

Originally posted by thefonz
maybe if it's a confidence thing try lowering your standards and ask girls you know aren't gonna flake and work your way up from there to the hot ones.......YANKEES STILL SUCK

Amen brotha. It's not confidence, I've been flaked on from 5s to 9s.

Weisman- I'm way past the afc days of calling a million times. In fact, I don't think was ever at that phase, lol. The VM is a killer, I'm pretty generic when I leave em. I think I need to start calling later at night and not leaving VMs.

 

[DeathDealer]

They might not like your date plan, they might be busy, they might not like you.

You don't know.

Try once more the next week, if nothing happens. Then you got your answer.. you can move on.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Originally posted by Broham
Amen brotha. It's not confidence, I've been flaked on from 5s to 9s.

Weisman- I'm way past the afc days of calling a million times. In fact, I don't think was ever at that phase, lol. The VM is a killer, I'm pretty generic when I leave em. I think I need to start calling later at night and not leaving VMs.

There's your answer. If all the girls from 5-9's are flakin', guess who's the common denominator? Yes, YOU. Yes, I know, it shouldn't be that way. Guess what? We play the cards we're dealt with. We can't live in the "shoulds" and "shouldn'ts", can we? You are doing things that are turning off both the average and the hotties. Stop acting the same way and still expect a differnt outcome. How about you learn the rules of the game. If you're gonna play anyway, why not improve your skills?

You are giving yourself all the anwers in your own responses. If you are generic, then stop being generic. You need to stand out from all the other generic chumps that these girls have to deal with. How do you think they weed the many chumps out? You got it, they play games to filter out the guys who are clueless and don't know how to carry themselves. The voice mail is the easiest roadblock to throw at you. Most men can't get past that first barrier. Go learn some game; improve your skills, and this kind of stuff won't bother you anymore. You will look forward to matching skills when playing the game.

 

[Cloudtopsun2100]

yep

they can't say no cause they are domb hos- pisses me off- the phone is a whole nother battlefield I hate it- like a freakin tightrope you gotta walk while some fat ass in a leotard is jumping up and down on it hoping you fall off- thats when you give them the finger and then salute them with a "f*** you!!"- anyways read the dj bible to brush up on stuff- some HBs will see the light and you'll be golden