"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is it sexual harassment for a woman at an astronomy party to have Solar System as an arm tat and a man to look under the sleeve for Pluto?

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Just when you thought it couldn't get any worse:

https://www.patheos.com/blogs/nosac...use-neil-degrasse-tyson-of-sexual-misconduct/

The groping incident allegedly took place at an after-party following the AAS meeting in 2009, which took place in Long Beach. This was supposed to be a lighthearted social event to show that astronomers could have fun, according to Dr. Allers.
“Tyson was there, and he was dancing and drinking and all of that at the party, so a friend and I decided to get pictures with him,” she told me.

But after the first picture was taken (above, left), Tyson decided to explore Dr. Allers’ tattoo. It features a realistic solar system that stretches from her arm to her back and collar bone area.
“After we had taken the picture, he noticed my tattoo and kind of grabbed me to look at it, and was really obsessed about whether I had Pluto on this tattoo or not… and then he looked for Pluto, and followed the tattoo into my dress.”
OH MY!

I think it's time once again for all-male social & professional clubs, just so men won't accidentally offend women.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just when you thought it couldn't get any worse:

OH MY!

I think it's time once again for all-male social & professional clubs, just so men won't accidentally offend women.
Or, just stay home, and read a book.
 

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Uptight people shouldn't go to parties where there is plenty of alcohol laying around.
Neil looked like he was having fun and being really friendly at that party.
What an ungrateful c0ckroach that lady is!
 
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