"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it safe to go to this meetup tonight?

Lostsoul85

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Msged this black chick off a datehookup.com site very briefly leaving my number and telling her she can text me

Anyways she asks if she can call me instead?I say sure

First thing she says is that she is exczema(skin condition) and how its getting bad blahh blah blah

Her Boyfriend kicked her out for another woman,she is also pregnant and she is staying at a hotel room until tommorow where she will go to a shelter

Anyways my primary concern is a setup where she is being used as a decoy and some thug is hiding in the room waiting to rob me..

I said lets meet outside i want to talk to you first,
At first shes hesistant but then says ok and texts me the hotel address with the room #
she says ok(my place is out of the question since im with my parents)

Should i go?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yorkex

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Google the hotel and check to see the location.
Go and ask her to meet you at the lobby of restaurant there.

But by all means DONT go into the room alone with her , it's just too fishy.

Second , call her and tell her an emergency came up and you will make it up to her , wait tomorrow and see if she actually left the hotel room like she said ...if not then you have you answer ( a set up ).
 

way2smart

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Lostsoul85 said:
Her Boyfriend kicked her out for another woman,she is also pregnant and she is staying at a hotel room until tommorow where she will go to a shelter

Should i go?
I can't believe you are seriously asking this.
Are you really that desperate to meet a girl who is pregnant, has a skin condition and is homeless?
It doesn't compute.
 

Lostsoul85

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@Mauser

Yeah definitely red flags for a relationship which i am not going to get into

What I was wondering if it was safe for **** Buddy type of thing only..you know free sex?


@Walmart
Haven't got laid in a year...So yeah trying to get some freebies
 

Lostsoul85

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Mauser96 said:
I'd pass.

Let me re-iterate :

Bad skin, homeless and knocked up...plus potentially a set-up.

I would love my hands to death before I would go there.
What about taking her out for a hangout at a bar where i play ping pong and using this activity as a practice date.

Help me gain experience with going out on dates with women for free?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sylvester the cat

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Lostsoul85 said:
@Mauser

Yeah definitely red flags for a relationship which i am not going to get into
These aren't red flags. These are... more than red flags. :eek:
 

Lostsoul85

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good call guys..I think i am not gonna pursue this

just too risky

I appreciate the advice
 
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