"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is it Really Worth It?

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schttrj

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I was thinking of something... Is only learning Don Juan tricks sufficient?

Money, career, your social status matters! Isn't it?

Would any quality well-off girl want to wallow around with the street hobo? I don't think so...

After being in the community for so long, I'd say working on getting a stand in your life gets you girls. Tricks only to some extent.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MisterMcGee

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Don Juan is about self improvement.

You're talking about PUA tricks. FFS totally different things, close thread.
 
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Is only learning Don Juan tricks sufficient?
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There are no tricks when you make a genuine effort to improve your life and yourself. If you prefer to just learn the 'quick fixes' and mask who you really are, then go right ahead, but you won't be able to fool everybody for long.

I made the genuine effort to make myself a more interesting, confident, funny, and friendly person. People (mostly women) are quickly drawn to me. The term "chick magnet" seems to apply.

The interesting thing that I find is that other guys seem to want my company, until they become jealous of me being surrounded by women, or that their girlfriends and wives won't shut up about me :D
 
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