'Okay, well, I do. So, I'm takin' a stab at ya.
I'll be the first to admit that when I logged in here for the first time I was a hot mess. No goal or ambition or game or anything. This site helped me fix it. Real life experience helped me fix it. A higher power helped me get grounded enough to not let sh*t go to my head. People like you need a passion, something they can hold onto. Music, film... fu*k, Yu Gi Oh, whatever. Talking about your problems doesn't solve anything. It's like taking a depression pill because you've had a bad day. When the meds wear off, the problem is still there. Staring at you like a hungry animal, waiting to eat up more of your time. If you let it do that, you're a fu*ktard.
So, you're either a troll (based on the musings of other respectable users on this thread) or you're just someone who refuses to apply any sound advice to his life. Either way, log off, get some fresh air, find something you love and worry about women later. L comes before W in the alphabet, so life should come before women in your world, sir."
Damnit,you're right. You're all right. I am doing this for attention. I didn't realize it before. I posted here with the best of intentions,looking for a solution to my dillemma(s),but turned it into a bvitch fest,and instead of progressing,I am stuck.
I need that,a passion,a drive,a goal. Hell,I should have been doing that all this time,but instead,just meandering. And that's what kills me,the time gone bye. Not getting involved,working out,meeting more women,having more sex,years of potential experience gone.
I just have a hard time taking advice. It's hard too when you are focused on just one thing. I now realize I cannot be helped on here. I have something where I can't see myself having the sucess I want,yet can see others who do.
As for life,well,I am not in control of mine....
Or there is something severely lacking or I just don't have. Whether it's romantic/good dating skills,unable to lead or initiate sexually,or not knowing interest signs. I get so caught up in this,I can't figure out how to fix it
. I mean,how do you do it? How do you be the guy the bvitches go crazy for? Oh of course,phd's,money,mba's,high paying job certainly helps doesn;t it?
I mean,I realize you can only give me so much advice,I have some problems that need to be worked out with a professional...
I am afraid. I am. I will admit it. I am a fearful,mistrusting,angry,insecure person. Most people wouldn't assume it,esp those I work with,but of course, I can't go around spouting this to them,or customers,cause I would come off as crazy.
As for saying what I want out loud,well,there was a point when I was younger I would do that,and I wouldn't care who I pissed off, or how weird I came off as,then at some point,I just stopped. I became hermit like,reclusive,young too,I was 16 when all this happened,and I haven't been able to pull myself out. I mean,I feel miles behind everyone else in my own age group,I have no solid grasp on personal success.
I have needed to do something about it for a long time,and yeah,all I can think about is what could go wrong. I want to have the success,but it has seemed out of grasp for me. Like I said,I am/have been very insecure,so when I see so much as a couple together,or even reading about sex and people's sex lives,and how they met,and how long they have been together,I get angered easily.
