"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is it really the men's fault for the problems stemming from the Sexual Revolution?

MatureDJ

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This woman seems to think so:

http://www.thenation.com/blog/173746/marriage-con

Take Focus on the Family’s “talking points” on marriage. Under the headline, “Marriage is Essential to a Thriving Society,” the organizations says straight marriage is necessary because it “socializes men.”

A society’s most serious problem is the unattached male, and marriage links men to women who help channel male sexuality and aggression in socially productive ways. Marriage and parenthood socialize men to care for and respect their wives, other women and children.
See, ladies? We need to be married so that men won’t go raping and pillaging. And let’s not even get into how single moms are told they’re a scourge on society—as if their relationship choices (or non-choices) determine the wellness of the country.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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of course it is the mens fault, everything wrong and negative always is, thats the rationalisation default position of women, men are flawed, and the only way of removing or minimizing those flaws, is for marriage to a woman to happen.
its also a distraction technique, bu focusing on the mans 'flaws' somehow womens floors become 'cloaked'. do not expect most women to be rational, do not expect most women to put up a comprehensive reational response, balanced, fair!

men are socialised by marriage (read: controlled, enslaved, socially conditioned, burdoned) if men werent, women would be on their arses and and living in poverty, offering sex for food...(ok a bit extreme but life would be much tougher for the dears)
 

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Another feminist who has contributed to the destruction of the tradtional family. She says:

"If traditional marriage benefited everyone—not just men and their pesky unsocialized ways—there wouldn’t need to be quite so much cajoling women about how fabulous it all is".

So in this woman's view, men were the only people who gained any benefit from marriage. Apparently the women and children in nuclear families were getting screwed all along, and children are better off being raised by single women.

She also says:
"desperate nostalgia for traditional marriage and antiquated gender roles will never be stronger than women’s will to be free from constraining norms."

So apparently she acknowledges that feminism has destroyed the traditional family and thinks that is a good thing. What the hell is up this woman's ass?
 

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Is it really the men's fault for the problems stemming from the Sexual Revolution?
I think so, for the simple fact they allowed it. Men (baby boomers) allowed these civilization destroying hags a squawk box to spew their poison.

Men knew for thousands of years women left to their own devices and unchecked were a self destructive force to not only themselves but to everyone around them. It's only the last what 50? years we have forgotten but it's all becoming crystal clear to us now once again.
 
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