"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is it really the men's fault for the problems stemming from the Sexual Revolution?

MatureDJ

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This woman seems to think so:

http://www.thenation.com/blog/173746/marriage-con

Take Focus on the Family’s “talking points” on marriage. Under the headline, “Marriage is Essential to a Thriving Society,” the organizations says straight marriage is necessary because it “socializes men.”

A society’s most serious problem is the unattached male, and marriage links men to women who help channel male sexuality and aggression in socially productive ways. Marriage and parenthood socialize men to care for and respect their wives, other women and children.
See, ladies? We need to be married so that men won’t go raping and pillaging. And let’s not even get into how single moms are told they’re a scourge on society—as if their relationship choices (or non-choices) determine the wellness of the country.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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of course it is the mens fault, everything wrong and negative always is, thats the rationalisation default position of women, men are flawed, and the only way of removing or minimizing those flaws, is for marriage to a woman to happen.
its also a distraction technique, bu focusing on the mans 'flaws' somehow womens floors become 'cloaked'. do not expect most women to be rational, do not expect most women to put up a comprehensive reational response, balanced, fair!

men are socialised by marriage (read: controlled, enslaved, socially conditioned, burdoned) if men werent, women would be on their arses and and living in poverty, offering sex for food...(ok a bit extreme but life would be much tougher for the dears)
 

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Another feminist who has contributed to the destruction of the tradtional family. She says:

"If traditional marriage benefited everyone—not just men and their pesky unsocialized ways—there wouldn’t need to be quite so much cajoling women about how fabulous it all is".

So in this woman's view, men were the only people who gained any benefit from marriage. Apparently the women and children in nuclear families were getting screwed all along, and children are better off being raised by single women.

She also says:
"desperate nostalgia for traditional marriage and antiquated gender roles will never be stronger than women’s will to be free from constraining norms."

So apparently she acknowledges that feminism has destroyed the traditional family and thinks that is a good thing. What the hell is up this woman's ass?
 

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Is it really the men's fault for the problems stemming from the Sexual Revolution?
I think so, for the simple fact they allowed it. Men (baby boomers) allowed these civilization destroying hags a squawk box to spew their poison.

Men knew for thousands of years women left to their own devices and unchecked were a self destructive force to not only themselves but to everyone around them. It's only the last what 50? years we have forgotten but it's all becoming crystal clear to us now once again.
 
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