"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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is it really a mans world?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DoctorLW

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It's still a mans world, and as far as I can tell, always will be.

Women just don't make good leaders. Sure, there are exceptions (as there are for everything), and some fantastic women leaders. But for the most part, they just can't do it. In the business world how many times have you seen an extremely successful woman elevated to a position of power and completely fall apart? Plenty.
 

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it used to be....untill women stoped needing men to survive....at which point men turned into p*ssys, in hopes of keeping the women arund.
 

MooseGod

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It's not a man's world or a woman's world...It's a world where only the strong survive. Do you let your failures get you down, or do you get back on your feet and try it again?

We live in a world that will give you nothing for free...if you want something, you've got to man up and take it for yourself.

Let me put that in perspective with a money metaphor. There are lots of rich people out there. Some were born into it, some made it for themselves. But the self-made millionaires, if they lost everything, they are probably clever enough to find a way to earn it all back. On the other hand, some people, if they lost everything, would sit around and mope about it and live a life of poverty. Which one are you?
 

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Raikojo17 said:
i've heard from other men that women determine the actions of men.

which in a way, is true

you guys know it. if women were attracted to men who could walk on their hands, the half the world would turn upside down.
Society drilled into us at a young age that we are suppose to do everything a woman wants to please her.

Its all an illusion. People have as much power as you give them.

If you choose to run your own life, then its your world.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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