"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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is it proper etiquette to ask phone number from several women in a group date?

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is it proper etiquette to ask phone number from several women in a group date?

Would the other women get jealous? Should I ask phone number of second one woman discreetly ?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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picard said:
is it proper etiquette to ask phone number from several women in a group date?

Would the other women get jealous? Should I ask phone number of second one woman discreetly ?
Don't ask girls for their numbers...
 

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picard said:
is it proper etiquette to ask phone number from several women in a group date?

Would the other women get jealous? Should I ask phone number of second one woman discreetly ?
I'm not quite sure what a group date is, but just ask everyone there for their number, girls and guys. Just say something like, "let's keep in touch" or "do you want to keep in touch?" and then pull out your phone or ask them to call/text you or whatever. Dating is social, so don't be too secretive about it, and besides, everyone else probably wants to exchange numbers too.
 
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