"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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carlitos

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for a guy to live inside a girl's house and they're NOT fvcking? Normally I'd say 95% chance if the guy has keys to her place something's going on for sure but anyone heard any cases that's not?


my situation is that..i'm dating this older chick thats pretty successful...and we're really into each other...our relationship is kinda still in the beginning and she's not leeting me live at her place just yet...but she has a long term business partner that has keys to her place however he's some ugly dude with no style..she reassured me many times they are just business partners and he fixes sh!t for her around the house..


the guy's married now as well and she told me it was her idea to get him off her back because he likes her and she claims that she doesnt like him that way but i'm hearing rumors that he's her secret boyfriend...should i believe her or be suspicious? and what should i do next?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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horaholic

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What he said! seriously, move on from that and save yourself a LOT of bvllshyt.
 

carlitos

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hmm maybe i didn't make everything sound right but i dont think this is one of the case where i'd dump her..it does seem like she has lots of feelings for me and we spend a lot of time together..this is only a small thing that bothers me because i know she's still giving me most of her attention...kinda like i'm the guy she likes and there's another guy that follows her around could be the 'nice guy'..after all she is a businesswoman that has lots of guys around her but not necessarily sleeping with them all

overall i do think i'm still the guy she has feelings for and she's a really cool chick that can teach me a lot of things since she's older but i'm just suspicious and i dont like the fact that she could have another guy..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Furyguy

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I live with a 9 and we don't ****... any more.

This is probably the exception and not the rule, but yeah it's possible.
 

Da Realist

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He's a married man who likes your woman, has keys to her place, and can actually go over there and still be a married man? This man has either totally surrendered his nuts, is good enough so his wife isn't nagging him because he's going to another woman's house, or your woman is lying. All I have to say is don't put your eggs in on basket for right now.
 
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