"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is it possible to win a girl back over?

KillingTime

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I had just met this cool girl, we hadn't started going out yet or anything but we were just flirting back and forth etc., I was getting a lot of positive vibes from her and things seem to be flowing well....
Unfortunately on a school trip she met a certain guy, they made out and what not and he completely stole her heart... the guy has gone back to his other country but she is completely head over heels for this guy....

So is it possible to get her into ME again? Any techniques or advice for this situation? I tried just flirting normally with her like we used to before she left, she was nice and everything but I can tell this other guy is still on her mind, it wasn't the same.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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tactic

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yeah keep flirting and make a time or a schedule for you to hang out.
 

Void

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...didn't you already post this...?
 

zerolx255

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Hey no worries, same thing happened to me. A bunch of people went on a ski trip and she was all over this guy, i don't know what came over me but we got in a big fight. But a few weeks later we were back to flirting and what not, so just keep your chin up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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