"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is It possible to Recover from a POOR FIRST IMPRESSION ?

KneghtRyder

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yo,

i think i fccked up again and i need ur suggestions to help me get out of this ..

this whole summer, i've been trying to get with this chick. I think she was my best and most possible chance of getting a hot chick who is interested in me, as she was giving me buying signals the entire summer.

well finally sometime today i go the chance to get with her 1 on 1 and talk to her. but like i said.. i think i ****ed up a good chance because 1) my conversation was weak , in fact after talking to her for a good 3-4 minutes, she says 'alright well i have to go do this..blah' even though she given me full attention for those 3-4 ..she gave me an audition to show my skills but i came up weak due to the fact, i was sleepy and not really feeling my best today.
2) i think the general consensus here is taht when you have a girl that is interested in you...when u approach you must do so with confidence and alpha-ness..i failed to exhibit that.. i was mostly chatting and trying to talk her up socially that was the only positive.

the conversation went like this:
'u are in pre-calc'
'how is taht going'
'how is that prof doing'
'u want to do reserach, thats cool my father works so and so '
'u want to goto that school, thats cool my brother goes here'

i did end up getting her email. .. not her number. THAT IS WHAT SUCKS. I AM ABLE TO WIN a FIRST DATE ON 100% of the Numbers taht I get. I HAVE NEVER GOTTTEN A DATE FROM AN EMAIL>

At this point, its not like I really have a choice, but I NEED to recover to show her that I m an alpha that i'm an interesting in her.

so how can I do this just now with her email ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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baller1985

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get her # after u send her one email, then do your 100% date-from-# conversion thing lol
 

KneghtRyder

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baller1985 said:
get her # after u send her one email, then do your 100% date-from-# conversion thing lol

good advice...man.. i think iam going to begin by asking shyt about her school first email so she'll comfortable..and then on the second reply to her email ask for her number...
 
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