"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is it possible to not be able to get hard off porn?

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When I first saw porn as a preteen, it used to get me excited, but now it doesn't. Is this normal? I do like women, but porn vids and magazines does nothing for me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dude when I was a horny 14 year old, I could get hard just looking at a photo of a woman in lingerie, forget any nudity. But you get jaded afterawhile. Think about porn 50 years ago. It was a woman in her underwear. If she took her bra off, that was hardcore porn. Now we have 50 guy anal creampie gangbangs, not to mention bizarre porn like people sh*tting on each other
 
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speakeasy said:
Dude when I was a horny 14 year old, I could get hard just looking at a photo of a woman in lingerie, forget any nudity. But you get jaded afterawhile. Think about porn 50 years ago. It was a woman in her underwear. If she took her bra off, that was hardcore porn. Now we have 50 guy anal creampie gangbangs, not to mention bizarre porn like people sh*tting on each other
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What is even worse is that guys get off that kind of stuff! I can't stand to watch some of that...too extreme for me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A girl in a swimsuit is enough to do it for me
 
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Um either youre watching the wrong porn or...___ _____ __ _ __________.
 
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