"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is it possible to not be able to get hard off porn?

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When I first saw porn as a preteen, it used to get me excited, but now it doesn't. Is this normal? I do like women, but porn vids and magazines does nothing for me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude when I was a horny 14 year old, I could get hard just looking at a photo of a woman in lingerie, forget any nudity. But you get jaded afterawhile. Think about porn 50 years ago. It was a woman in her underwear. If she took her bra off, that was hardcore porn. Now we have 50 guy anal creampie gangbangs, not to mention bizarre porn like people sh*tting on each other
 
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speakeasy said:
Dude when I was a horny 14 year old, I could get hard just looking at a photo of a woman in lingerie, forget any nudity. But you get jaded afterawhile. Think about porn 50 years ago. It was a woman in her underwear. If she took her bra off, that was hardcore porn. Now we have 50 guy anal creampie gangbangs, not to mention bizarre porn like people sh*tting on each other
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What is even worse is that guys get off that kind of stuff! I can't stand to watch some of that...too extreme for me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A girl in a swimsuit is enough to do it for me
 
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Um either youre watching the wrong porn or...___ _____ __ _ __________.
 
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