Is it POSSIBLE to make a girl Lose INTEREST by moving too SLOW!!!@!!!!

[toot86]

Yep I think iam moving to slow with the beutiful babies..


Because .. I feel I lost one by moving to slow ..

I met her at a club .. Kino,Deep convo,High INterest, PHone call told me where she lived picked her up was very happy...

but I tried to do that cheek kiss .."Kiss one side of the cheek and then the other then point to your mouth trick" But she just looked at me like whatever..

So i thought she didint want to kiss me so I didint go for the kiss on the first date..
by the way she was mentioning she was not a innocent girl..
so its not that she conservative..


now she doesnt want to hang around with me..


Are there any guidelines on how to move with a girl... by the way anyone know the Bases again.. I forgot it 1st base is kissing right?? what are the others..



Another girl I went on a date with is a girl I work with I posted a thread on her that I wanted to get with her.. And guess what I did.. took her out on town got some good kino ,convo and makeout session..

But I didint feel her up or anything eles...


WAS that a mistake???

because she stuck in the tounge!!!


I feel IAM LOSING GIRLS BECAUSE IAM A SLOW MOVER!!

 

[Eternal]

Girls can lose interest if you move too slow...They can also lose interest if you move too fast. Seems like a spark just died at some point and she just flat out lost interest. Don't worry, it happens.

As far as bases, that depends on each person. Here's mine:

1st: Kissing/Making Out

2nd: Feeling/Fingering/Handjob

3rd: Oral

Home Run: Sex

 

[toot86]

Originally posted by crazykid
Girls can lose interest if you move too slow...They can also lose interest if you move too fast. Seems like a spark just died at some point and she just flat out lost interest. Don't worry, it happens.

As far as bases, that depends on each person. Here's mine:

1st: Kissing/Making Out

2nd: Feeling/Fingering/Handjob

3rd: Oral

Home Run: Sex

Thanks man good stuff..

but it seems like a lose lose situation doesnt it..


You have to perfect it .. the speed any guidelines??

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by toot86
Thanks man good stuff..

but it seems like a lose lose situation doesnt it..


You have to perfect it .. the speed any guidelines??

I for the first date kiss and if that doesn't work but she still shows interest, there is a second date. If no kiss then, she is gone. If there is a first date kiss, go for making out the second date (or next time you two are alone.) If you two are alone for a long time (hour or more) then start going farther. Basically, I just go on gut instinct. She'll let you know when you've gone far enough...So you wait 15 minutes and go back.

 

[Shiftkey]

How do you know how far to go? Well for starters when she tells you she's <NOT AN INNOCENT GIRL> that means she <WANTS TO FVCK YOU!>

But generally you should always push the limits. Keep moving things further until she firmly, verbally says no (anti-slut defence like "I don't think we should be doing this" don't count as a firm no). When they give you a no, make sure you try again the next date. This way you KNOW you're not going too slow, and girls just love it when their limits are pressed because it makes them feel desired. You won't be going too fast because you'll listen to their "no."

 

[Silquee Smoove]

"People are only as faithful as their options".

You've got to remember most women can have most, if not all the guys they want, so you should go at YOUR own speed and not mind what she is really feeling.

Enough of this, "I'm going to slow and I'm going to end up losing her"...man, she'll find someone else anyway.

Just go on and get your d!ck wet.

End of story.