"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is it possible to have a massive social circle after college and make lots of new "friends"?

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We preach about approaching women and the main thing we aim for on So Suave is to be different from the Average Frustrated Chump who is likely a sexless loser with no social life and no value to society.

But as an above average guy, is it actually possible to have a massive social circle, make tons of new friends, and have a social life that rivals that of a wealthy frat boy after college?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Of course! Join a gym, frequent small music venues, yoga, Co-ed softball or volleyball, take dancing or cooking classes, etc. Loads of opportunity to learn and experience new things and also improve your social circle(s).
 
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