"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is it possible to gain 40 pounds in 4 months?

Agent Zero

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Why don't you just hit the gym and eat a lot and make sure your protein intake is high? That's all you need to do....you aren't going to want to count every ****ing calorie anyways so just work hard rather than argue about it online with a bunch of skinny twigs.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Throttle

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A-Unit said:
Like ALL statistics, it isn't PERFECT. It's more of an AVERAGE. If you've got not fat to lose, obviously you'll more muscle. And if you're ALL fat, then you'll lose more fat than muscle.
there we go...as an average it makes sense. it sounded like you were giving an ironclad rule.
 

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Thanks for the advice guys. Right now Im just trying to gain weight and muscle cause Im tired of being skinny. Im thinking about following Anthony Ellis' program, do you guys think its worth it or should I base my workout on the information I find in this forum?
 

6-heads lewis

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locster,

the ellis program has been discussed many times, my personal take is that it sucks. a beginner has no need for drop sets, supersets, 1-rep maxes, or 1x/week bodypart traning. get on rippetoe or 5x5, as long as you eat and sleep well youll make better gains. i speak from personal experience as well, i started off on ellis than switched to a modified rippetoe which blew me up
 

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The secret which is not really a secret is the amount of repetitions your doing per set

next time you find yourself working out get heavier weights and try doing 2-4 reps by 5sets and get a friend to help you
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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