my gf told me recently that i "have everything going for me and everyone knows it. you don't need to tell them that." what do you guys make of this? every time i make a c+f observation or statement, she gives me a disappointed look. i know it's not lack of interest cuz she's told me several times how she's scared about liking me so much so soon. but still. i think quite a few of my comments are really pretty witty and funny. i'm just wondering if this is a case of a woman being inconsistent between what they say and what they do or if anyone else actually has experience with this.
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is it possible to find a girl that game doesn't work well on?
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Well I mean your C+F statements could just be out of taste. You might be doing them too much, or being too boastful in them.
But in your defense there are girls who don't respond well to the typical game you can learn here. Who they hang out with, the way they were raised, and their environment could be a testament to this. Or, some girls just have their own unique tastes in guys, and they act upon it! though, its pretty rare, as most girls are so dependent on social acceptance when it comes to picking guys.
But back in the days where I would say alot of stuff that would be frowned upon here, I was able to still build interest in some chicks. Learning game has helped even more, though I'm taking time off right now on gaming girls. I think its more of a personality match than the way she responds to your game.
Whats the context of her saying that?
But in your defense there are girls who don't respond well to the typical game you can learn here. Who they hang out with, the way they were raised, and their environment could be a testament to this. Or, some girls just have their own unique tastes in guys, and they act upon it! though, its pretty rare, as most girls are so dependent on social acceptance when it comes to picking guys.
But back in the days where I would say alot of stuff that would be frowned upon here, I was able to still build interest in some chicks. Learning game has helped even more, though I'm taking time off right now on gaming girls. I think its more of a personality match than the way she responds to your game.
Whats the context of her saying that?
well she was trying to teach me to longboard and i said "you better hope there's no talent scouts here or they might crush your dream of being a pro by picking me" (she's not trying to go pro or anything i was just messing with her.) and that was the specific example that she responded to with the statement i mentioned before. but you could be right. i honestly do think that it's a good personality match between she and i. and she is quite independent about what she does. i've just been trying to tone it down lately. i don't know. it's just become so set in my personality since learning about game that it makes it kinda tough. i appreciate the response btw. apparently ppl dont run into this situation all that often.
Your example you just posted is something I consider that is too ****y. ****y+funny does NOT work on a few girls in high school, and many times, it is used incorrectly. If you find that you are getting negative results to it, respond accordingly, and either stop using this method or learn how to use it properly.
There are many posts in this forum in regards to examples that are both ****y+funny. Note: I am not asking you to memorize those examples, however, I am asking you to read them, understand them, and think of your own. Canned lines are not things you should get used to saying - they are meant to be as a guide.
Anyway, I wish I could post more, but I was just leaving and figured you really need the replies. If you have any specific and quick questions you need answering, feel free to PM me!
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There are many posts in this forum in regards to examples that are both ****y+funny. Note: I am not asking you to memorize those examples, however, I am asking you to read them, understand them, and think of your own. Canned lines are not things you should get used to saying - they are meant to be as a guide.
Anyway, I wish I could post more, but I was just leaving and figured you really need the replies. If you have any specific and quick questions you need answering, feel free to PM me!
Axcell.
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see it this way, whatever youre doing is working so keep doing it, if she said shes scared of likign you so muc hso fast then youre doign fine man so dont change your game on her.
as for the question.. imo its all about calibration, dont try to kill a turkey with an anti-tank gun, you gotta know what to hit each girl with
as for the question.. imo its all about calibration, dont try to kill a turkey with an anti-tank gun, you gotta know what to hit each girl with
I've reconsidered. Girls LOVE a ****y guy. The ****iest guy I know? Girls love him. I was talking to one of my girl friends and I asked her why she loves him and what girls like. At first she didn't answer but I pushed it but then she said 'I love it how he's so ****y! And how he is so loud and obnoxious when he is with you guys'
On the flipside, the humblest guy I know... Well girls love him more. But he ahs everything going for him so being ****y would be over the top
On the flipside, the humblest guy I know... Well girls love him more. But he ahs everything going for him so being ****y would be over the top