"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is it possible to be a man today?

SamMalone

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I can't figure out a way. All of the succesful and powerful people are businessmen or politicians with fake smiles and beliefs changing based on what will get them elected. I don't think you can be a real man today anymore and get anywhere in life, at least in America. Imagine Alexander the Great being alive today....would he be taking over the world via politics, or perhaps be a leader of a percieved "terrorist" group?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bonhomme

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Alexander the great would probably be an ultimate fighting star.

In a sense it's easier, because a small amount of courage goes a long way.

It is hard to believe how spineless (or on the other hand, dense and stubborn) politicians tend to be. Only one Senator (Russ Feingold) had the balls to vote against the "Patriot Act," and I'm sure that many did not support it deep down inside.
 

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lildevil said:
Hey dude...i dont know what the title and a bunch of politics really have to do with being a man...Check the topic no Offence

Yeah seriously.

Politics has been around since the beginning of civilization. It's just how society works, but it has nothing to do with being a man.

Politics and business is a profession, being a man is not. It's character that makes the man.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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